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Old 08-17-2014, 01:25 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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Im never afraid of getting into a relationship or commitment. I won't cheat, not afraid of marriage or commitment. My fear is can i take care of my loved ones financially? Does anyone ever have this fear? All my relationships have ended because i could never provide enough.
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:29 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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Im never afraid of getting into a relationship or commitment. I won't cheat, not afraid of marriage or commitment. My fear is can i take care of my loved ones financially? Does anyone ever have this fear? All my relationships have ended because i could never provide enough.
wtf?? Your SO didn't contribute to the household economy?
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:49 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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wtf?? Your SO didn't contribute to the household economy?
Everyone contributes something in a relationship no matter how lazy or selfish they maybe. No i ran into alot of gals who still believe that it is a guys responsibility to provide the financial security. Or they believe in contributing but not 50/50 or a few didn't want to live paycheck to paycheck.
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:49 PM
 
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Im never afraid of getting into a relationship or commitment. I won't cheat, not afraid of marriage or commitment. My fear is can i take care of my loved ones financially? Does anyone ever have this fear? All my relationships have ended because i could never provide enough.
He always wants to pay when we go out but after a number of dates I started paying as well even if he insisted in paying. I told him I appreciate his attention but these things have to be balanced.
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Old 08-17-2014, 01:52 PM
 
Location: mainland but born oahu
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He always wants to pay when we go out but after a number of dates I started paying as well even if he insisted in paying. I told him I appreciate his attention but these things have to be balanced.
Good for you, unless one is a lawyer, doctor etc. This day and age its unrealistic to believe anyone could live on one persons income.
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Old 08-17-2014, 02:15 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Life is long hard and cold at times.

When you have a chance to go for something that might bring you some positives...

I say this with earnest... What are you waiting for????????????
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