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If you don't want to cheat you don't seek out a relationship while your wife is gone. If you cannot control your sex drive enough to not let it distract from your daily living I believe you may be facing a bigger issue than lack of sex.
Any smart and not desperate woman would tell you to move along because they don't play with married men, even for a sex only situation.
What's the bigger issue with me? can you help me to find it out? Do you know any article, test, or something?
A lot of the "women" on Craigslist looking for casual sex are prostitutes. Even some of the normal ones.
WOW! really? I didnt know that! Their posts seems they are really looking for the relationship. Even some says they are too busy with their full time works and they dont have time to enjoy sex ... blah blah
WOW! really? I didnt know that! Their posts seems they are really looking for the relationship. Even some says they are too busy with their full time works and they dont have time to enjoy sex ... blah blah
There is always a catch.
Like I said, if it were easy, everyone would be doing it already.
I have a real suggestion for you: Go to a meetup of your local polyamory community. Google the name of your city + polyamory. Attend a discussion group, or potluck, or whatever.
There are more women than men who are into polyamory. They are usually married, and looking for something on the side. Their husband approves, so there won't be any drama. They range in age from 18 on up.
(Also, BTW, based on your writing style and content, you sound like you are bipolar and on an upswing. Be careful with that.)
Why do so many of us (men) think "casual" is just about sex? An why are we surprised when this dream never (or hardly ever) materializes?
To me a casual relationship means that a person isn't is not emotionally present in the relationship for their partner. I am not at all surprised that the number of women or men who would settle for this are few in number.
This is serious problem and challenge I have recently faced, and need your helps and inputs. I know that some people, perhaps particularly women/girls, might not like this post and think in a bad way about me; but hold on! Think about it before any judgment!
I am a man in his 30’s and married. Being a university student I am busy with my works and studies. And, usually highly sex-derived! Recently, unfortunately, my wife had to travel abroad and she wouldn’t come back in a couple of months or more.
Well, we are honest and open to each other . So, days before her departure we talked about it and she agreed I could have a casual relationship during this time ! We definitely don’t want to cheat!
It was a difficult situation for me, honestly and I was placed in a terrible dilemma: on one hand I had my wife’s consent; on the other yet I was not sure internally whether this was morally right; on top of that, my sexual needs distracted me from my everyday life to the extent that impacted my works and well-being. Well, I am not an angle, but a human with some natural needs, including sex; right?
Finally, I made my thoughts and spent lot of time searching dating sites and craigslist. All fake and crap! Except that in CL when it comes near reality, you are asked for a paid sex. Obviously, this is not what I am looking for!
Do you know if there is a way to find a ‘lovely’, ‘respectful’, and ‘mutually beneficial’ casual relationship?
Moreover, will a female partner in this kind of relationship get offended if she knows you are married and it is not going to be or lead to a long term relation?
Curious. Not sure if they have a swingers section. Maybe there is a swingers community near you and your wife in your local area. Perhaps date another couple who's willing and open to engage in swapping partners. "Lovely, respectful, mutually beneficial" comes to mind when "open" and "swinging" seem very compatible to suit both party's needs.
Curious. Not sure if they have a swingers section. Maybe there is a swingers community near you and your wife in your local area. Perhaps date another couple who's willing and open to engage in swapping partners. "Lovely, respectful, mutually beneficial" comes to mind when "open" and "swinging" seem very compatible to suit both party's needs.
Swingers would need his wife to be present. She's going to be overseas.
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. So, days before her departure we talked about it and she agreed I could have a casual relationship during this time 
! We definitely don’t want to cheat!
and I was placed in a terrible dilemma: on one hand I had my wife’s consent; on the other yet I was not sure internally whether this was morally right; on top of that, my sexual needs distracted me from my everyday life to the extent that impacted my works and well-being. Well, I am not an angle, but a human with some natural needs, including sex; right?
