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Old 08-20-2014, 12:02 PM
 
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If you're around a woman who you were not initially attracted to for a long time, she starts to become attractive?
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:05 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Yes if I like her personality.
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:08 PM
 
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Yes if I like her personality.
Let's say her personality is neither good nor bad. It's just neutral.
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:08 PM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Let's say her personality is neither good, nor bad. It's just neutral.

I wouldn't become more attracted to someone whose personality I would consider "neutral", no.
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:18 PM
 
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depends really. sometimes it's automatic/reflex that once your mind determines the attraction isn't there, you tune them out and just deal with them on an informational/transactional basis, if you need too that is. but if you end up developing some rapport, friendship and begin to enjoy their presence and company, it can open up thoughts of experiencing her physically, what she could be like, etc. then add alcohol and any indication she is into giving oral, most guys would be willing to see how it "works out"

sorry, i know that oral sex part is a bit direct but it still amazes me how many women aren't into it even knowing it's a mind blower for most guys, literally. but whatever, it's just my opinion...
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:20 PM
 
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If you're around a woman who you were not initially attracted to for a long time, she starts to become attractive?
yes i have. usually what happens with me is, i am put off by her initially for what ever reason, most likely because she rubbed me the wrong way when we first met. but then as i got to know her, my feelings would change.
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:25 PM
 
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It can happen. If you're around someone long enough, these things do happen. I can think of plenty of instances where groups form and say a year later, two of them are dating.
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Sango, TN
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First thing everyone, men and women look at, is the physical. Whether we agree on that or not.

If she looks pretty good, and has an amazing personality, sure.

If she is 250 lbs, and the sweetest woman ever, nope, not happening
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:29 PM
 
Location: Houston, TX
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Let's say her personality is neither good nor bad. It's just neutral.
Here's something, you're probably not gonna like this. lol

Yes if she's best looking one around, or if she's the only one around. For example at the office I worked with a girl around my age who's face I didn't find attractive. The other women that worked there were in their late 40's and 50's. After a while she became more attractive because she was the best looking one. In my early 20's I worked in a warehouse with nothing but guys and two girls worked inside the call center. After starring at guys all day, both of them started to look more attractive to me.
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Old 08-20-2014, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Seymour, CT
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If you're around a woman who you were not initially attracted to for a long time, she starts to become attractive?
She has to be at least mildly attractive initially. The personality will come afterwards... which will either give her leverage, or make me want to leave :-)
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