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depends really. sometimes it's automatic/reflex that once your mind determines the attraction isn't there, you tune them out and just deal with them on an informational/transactional basis, if you need too that is. but if you end up developing some rapport, friendship and begin to enjoy their presence and company, it can open up thoughts of experiencing her physically, what she could be like, etc. then add alcohol and any indication she is into giving oral, most guys would be willing to see how it "works out"
sorry, i know that oral sex part is a bit direct but it still amazes me how many women aren't into it even knowing it's a mind blower for most guys, literally. but whatever, it's just my opinion...
If you're around a woman who you were not initially attracted to for a long time, she starts to become attractive?
yes i have. usually what happens with me is, i am put off by her initially for what ever reason, most likely because she rubbed me the wrong way when we first met. but then as i got to know her, my feelings would change.
It can happen. If you're around someone long enough, these things do happen. I can think of plenty of instances where groups form and say a year later, two of them are dating.
Let's say her personality is neither good nor bad. It's just neutral.
Here's something, you're probably not gonna like this. lol
Yes if she's best looking one around, or if she's the only one around. For example at the office I worked with a girl around my age who's face I didn't find attractive. The other women that worked there were in their late 40's and 50's. After a while she became more attractive because she was the best looking one. In my early 20's I worked in a warehouse with nothing but guys and two girls worked inside the call center. After starring at guys all day, both of them started to look more attractive to me.
If you're around a woman who you were not initially attracted to for a long time, she starts to become attractive?
She has to be at least mildly attractive initially. The personality will come afterwards... which will either give her leverage, or make me want to leave :-)
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