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Old 09-21-2014, 10:17 AM
 
Location: LA, CA/ In This Time and Place
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Say yes and know she wants to spend time with you!
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Old 09-21-2014, 10:22 AM
 
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Ever interact with other humans before?
Of course I have.
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Old 09-21-2014, 11:38 AM
 
Location: Ohio
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Just go. Reply to her NOW.
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Old 09-21-2014, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Of course I have.

Well then I think what she said to you should be glaringly obvious she wants to spend time with you. lol

Seriously, contact her ........now, before it's too late.


Don't sweat it. She wants to get to know you better. It's a good thing.

Now GO!
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Old 09-21-2014, 11:48 AM
 
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I'm sorry to ask a stupid questions but I'm dumb when it comes to women. I met this girl fro ma summer class this year and we been talking to each other on Facebook. Couple days ago she ask me when is it a good time to have lunch or dinner with me. I'm not sure if it means anything or just a casual hangout. I don't think she is asking me out but I will let you experienced guys answer that one.
Best way to know is go to lunch with her. See what happens, and report back here
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Old 09-21-2014, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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Do you actually get paid for being a skeptic and cynic? How do I get that gig?
I SHOULD get paid for it but don't. I self-nominated and self-selected myself.
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Old 09-21-2014, 07:04 PM
 
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I SHOULD get paid for it but don't. I self-nominated and self-selected myself.
Then how are you a professional?
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Old 09-24-2014, 03:18 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I'm sorry to ask a stupid questions but I'm dumb when it comes to women. I met this girl fro ma summer class this year and we been talking to each other on Facebook. Couple days ago she ask me when is it a good time to have lunch or dinner with me. I'm not sure if it means anything or just a casual hangout. I don't think she is asking me out but I will let you experienced guys answer that one.
Since you seem to have no experience dating, I'm afraid you're going to base your decisions on this answer. Even if it is an "official" date, it does not imply she will behave in a certain way. Likewise, even if she left it vague, it doesn't mean date like stuff can't happen if you both wanted it. If you like her, dress nicely and look for signs from her.
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Old 09-24-2014, 03:26 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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She's asking you when it is a good time to have lunch or dinner with you.

I figured all that out without using my Ovaltine decoder ring, too.
LOL! The poor OP. She's asking you to lunch or dinner, OP. If it's not at her house, then it's "out". She's asking you out. Even if it were at her house, you'd have to go "out" of your place to get there, so she'd still be asking you "out". Note that a casual hang-out still is "out". Especially if it's just the two of you. Get it? She wants to spend time with JUST YOU, not with you + some friends. Does that mean anything to you? It should.
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Old 09-24-2014, 03:27 PM
 
Location: Ohio
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Why do these threads never result in the OP coming back and saying:

So we went out, and had a great time. I asked her on a second date and we're going out again Friday.

Instead, they usually desert the thread.
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