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Old 10-11-2014, 05:26 PM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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I hate math.
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Old 10-11-2014, 05:35 PM
 
Location: Pa
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I hate math.
I ♥ usamathman.
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Old 10-11-2014, 06:12 PM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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Depends on the woman.
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Old 10-12-2014, 12:27 AM
 
Location: Purgatory
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So here's just some information about me: I'm quiet as heck. I don't talk unless it's for something important, such as when I'm ordering food in a restaurant or when I'm talking to people who I work with. I don't like talking; it's physically tiring.

Not weird. I've seen many couple engage in "parallel play" and be happy just to have someone to play with.


I don't really like doing many things...I'm a math student, and I'm completely in love with the subject. I also like programming and playing the guitar.

I was weirder when I was younger; I hated smiling in pictures and sleeping in public, including on airplanes.

You hated sleeping in public? You think this is weird? Most people i know think its weird that im in my 30s and have no prob laying down in an airport or on the ground when i feel like it

I don't know the best way to express happiness. Should I smile? Should I laugh? Should I say something funny? Usually, when I'm happy, I have a little smile on my face. But most of the time, I'm the type of person who would look the same when I'm happy, or sad, or when there's a missile coming at me.

I have this prob too. Sometimes on the inside i think something is funny, but its not bust myself laughing funny. So i just say "that's funny!"

You are lucky you arent a girl, because you would have gone through your whole life having people berating you to "SMILE!" when its not your default facial expression and you're not retarded.

In case this sounds abnormal, do know that I have OCD and Tourettes, and until recently I obsessively thought horrible thoughts about myself, 24/7.

Let's say I get into dating in the future. I've read that women like "mysterious" people. My question is: am I mysterious, or just weird?
No one really likes "mysterious" past a certain age. We want to be able to communicate.
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Old 10-12-2014, 01:51 AM
 
Location: The Netherlands
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In case this sounds abnormal, do know that I have OCD and Tourettes, and until recently I obsessively thought horrible thoughts about myself, 24/7.

Let's say I get into dating in the future. I've read that women like "mysterious" people. My question is: am I mysterious, or just weird?
Neither, if you go for dating best find some one who enjoy silence as you do, because I like "life" inside of the house than complete silence like holocaust. May be there are people who likes the way you are. All the best!
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Old 10-12-2014, 08:24 AM
 
Location: Northville, MI
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Hopefully someone does. I'm very withdrawn and reserved.
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Old 10-12-2014, 08:53 AM
 
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So here's just some information about me: I'm quiet as heck. I don't talk unless it's for something important, such as when I'm ordering food in a restaurant or when I'm talking to people who I work with. I don't like talking; it's physically tiring.

I don't really like doing many things...I'm a math student, and I'm completely in love with the subject. I also like programming and playing the guitar.

I was weirder when I was younger; I hated smiling in pictures and sleeping in public, including on airplanes.

I don't know the best way to express happiness. Should I smile? Should I laugh? Should I say something funny? Usually, when I'm happy, I have a little smile on my face. But most of the time, I'm the type of person who would look the same when I'm happy, or sad, or when there's a missile coming at me.

In case this sounds abnormal, do know that I have OCD and Tourettes, and until recently I obsessively thought horrible thoughts about myself, 24/7.

Let's say I get into dating in the future. I've read that women like "mysterious" people. My question is: am I mysterious, or just weird?
I wouldn't say mysterious or weird, just you...?

Not everyone likes a "withdrawn" or "mysterious" person though.

I personally like people who are engaged and fun to hang with!
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Old 10-12-2014, 10:31 AM
 
Location: Austin, TX
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People generally prefer to date people who are social enough such that getting them to talk isn't like pulling teeth. Likewise with just being friends with them. I'd say the vast majority of the population meets that criteria, including many of those who are on the quiet side. If you're a little withdrawn or reserved every now and then, that's not a big deal...but if you're extremely withdrawn that is likely going to be an issue that impacts many aspects of your life. Being willing to socialize and engage is essential to being able to form connections with others. It should not be an ordeal for others to get to know you...many of them will just give up after a while.
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Old 10-12-2014, 10:34 AM
 
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Women like the strong silent type, they think we're listening.
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Old 10-12-2014, 12:53 PM
 
Location: southwestern PA
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Originally Posted by goingfortheone View Post
So here's just some information about me: I'm quiet as heck. I don't talk unless it's for something important, such as when I'm ordering food in a restaurant or when I'm talking to people who I work with. I don't like talking; it's physically tiring.

I don't really like doing many things...I'm a math student, and I'm completely in love with the subject. I also like programming and playing the guitar.

I was weirder when I was younger; I hated smiling in pictures and sleeping in public, including on airplanes.

I don't know the best way to express happiness. Should I smile? Should I laugh? Should I say something funny? Usually, when I'm happy, I have a little smile on my face. But most of the time, I'm the type of person who would look the same when I'm happy, or sad, or when there's a missile coming at me.

In case this sounds abnormal, do know that I have OCD and Tourettes, and until recently I obsessively thought horrible thoughts about myself, 24/7.

Let's say I get into dating in the future. I've read that women like "mysterious" people. My question is: am I mysterious, or just weird?
Why on earth would you want to date?
You don't like to talk.... how will you relate to a woman?
You don't like to do things.... dating means doing things.
You don't know how to express happiness... being happy while dating is sort of necessary. No one want to go out on one and be sad.
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