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So I'm gonna go on my fourth date with this guy, and his suggestion is dinner Which to me is a very dull idea.
So here's our dates:
First date: dinner
Second date: movie
Third date: late lunch
He asked me this Tuesday if I wanted to do sth on weekend I said yes. Since he asked so early I thought he might plan sth more fun, im so bummed out and start to think he's boring and dull.
Dull. How about getting coffee at a coffee place then if the mood and weather permit a walk in the park maybe holding hands if the mood strikes. Talk about things you both like or might like doing together. Dinner and movie dates are dullsville city.
If you think that his ideas are dull and boring, then why don't you come with some more exciting suggestions?
This going to be your fourth date now. How long you expect him to entertain you? Take the initiative!
If you think that his ideas are dull and boring, then why don't you come with some more exciting suggestions?
This going to be your fourth date now. How long you expect him to entertain you? Take the initiative!
Guys should take the lead, at least for the first few dates. Also I was waiting to see if he can come up with sth other than dinner. It's also a time to show if he's a fun person. Dull dull dull. So disappointed
In another thread you said that he is: very sweet, thoughtful, and you thought you had a good time.
Now you're telling us that he is dull... So what is it?
Guys should take the lead, at least for the first few dates. Also I was waiting to see if he can come up with sth other than dinner. It's also a time to show if he's a fun person. Dull dull dull. So disappointed
First what in hades does "sth" mean?
After that he has apparently taken the lead on 3 dates, how many more do you think is required? 6?10?
If you want to do something else then suggest it to him and go from there.
Personally I think you are being picky if you are complaining after only 3 dates.
Perhaps you should ask someone out yourself and you take the lead for all of the dates, then you can only complain to yourself when you become bored.
Edited to add: I am so glad I am married and enjoy dull, quiet, peaceful, relaxing and snuggling. It is so much less stressful than trying to entertain someone every moment of being together.
On the other hand define "dull"? Is it quite moments, gaps in the conversation flow, if so are they pleasurable or awkward? What would you prefer to undull the situation?
In another thread you said that he is: very sweet, thoughtful, and you thought you had a good time.
Now you're telling us that he is dull... So what is it?
Ya the first date was fun. He bought me a cup cake as a little gift before meeting me. I thought that was sweet. See I'm so not high mainence. but after the first dinner, all he can suggest is always dinner I'm getting bored!!!!
On the other hand define "dull"? Is it quite moments, gaps in the conversation flow, if so are they pleasurable or awkward? What would you prefer to undull the situation?
It's not awkward around him. But since we dnot know each other much, we need to do something together to create topics. Every time just sit, eat, and talk. How boring is that.
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So what is it?
