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Old 10-18-2014, 07:13 AM
 
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Quick back story. I was talking to a girl I met with OLD for 2 whole weeks. She said she hated talking on the phone so all of our conversation was via text. I was trying to get a date but it seeed like she was moving slow about it. I told her I could wait until she is ready. I started thinking that she was just playing games but she seemed genuinely into me. That's what she kept saying anyway. I find it hard to believe that someone could talk someone else up like that and be BSing the whole time.....I sent her a text saying " you are BSing, we've been talking for 2 weeks and still no date, you won't be hearing from me anymore, I hope you mature, yadda yadda yadda...I didn't say it exactly like that though. She never responded back. Still friends on FB. I haven't texted her in a little under a week now and now I'm starting to think that maybe she was genuine, just cautious? I felt like 2 weeks was too long to not have a date yet. Question is, should I text her and see if I can salvage it? Try to get her to talk again? I'm cringing at the thought of doing that but maybe I jumped the gun a little?
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:16 AM
 
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Didn't you just have a topic like this on here about a week ago? Is this the same woman, or a different one? Maybe OLD isn't for you.
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:18 AM
 
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i'd text her back if you aren't blocked

just tell her you have been played before and had your guard up

but after thinking about it you realized it wasnt fair to her so you are apologizing
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:32 AM
 
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Didn't you just have a topic like this on here about a week ago? Is this the same woman, or a different one? Maybe OLD isn't for you.
Same one
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:34 AM
 
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i'd text her back if you aren't blocked

just tell her you have been played before and had your guard up

but after thinking about it you realized it wasnt fair to her so you are apologizing
Nice. That's what I was thinking about saying. I think I just jumped the gun a little. But 2 weeks of texting without a date yet....? I dunno.
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:51 AM
 
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FYI...

A comment like that only works when you truly no longer care. You can't say that to be a "harda**" and then come crawling back...

If you are prepared to say that, you should be prepared and not care when the consequences are that you don't hear back.
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:56 AM
 
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She wrote your heiny off.She's keeping you as a backburner.
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Old 10-18-2014, 07:59 AM
 
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FYI...

A comment like that only works when you truly no longer care. You can't say that to be a "harda**" and then come crawling back...

If you are prepared to say that, you should be prepared and not care when the consequences are that you don't hear back.
yup, you are done. while women can get a pass for belng flaky, men can't. sounds like you almost did it right but depends what you said and how you acted up to that point. women do respond when act like "they no longer care", but that is if they haven't written you off already.
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Old 10-18-2014, 08:14 AM
 
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OK then, I guess I will have to chalk it up as a loss. I just didn't know if she was just screwing with me and being dumb, or if she was genuine. Ugh
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Old 10-18-2014, 08:20 AM
 
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what is o L d ?
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