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Don't want to make the thread about me but about you the reader instead, so I won't give much for details behind my situation. Have you not reconnected or broke it off with someone because of your wounded sense of self because of what happened in the past with them?
What if they chose someone else instead of you but now they are back and looking to reconnect with you? Other then you not being the one they didn't do anything wrong to you like cheating or using.
Or now they are single but you refuse to initiate interaction because you did last time. Or they do initiate first but you are ignoring it because they ignored you last time.
Ok I can't stand it I will give some details of my situation A woman from 2.5 years ago recently added me back to Facebook. I was really interested in her and she had the mythical 'unicorn' status with me. However she told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship then 2 weeks later she is in a relationship. 2 months after that she got married. 6 months later divorced. She removed me from FB when she got engaged. While she never did anything wrong to me I don't know how I would feel if she wanted to try to reconnect beyond being FB friends.
Mod cut: Image deleted. Like I said, a unicorn.
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I wouldn't read too much into her adding you back to Facebook.
That said I think I might at least be willing to have a conversation with her and see what her intentions are if she seems interested. It sounds like she was just in deep with another guy at the time and it wasn't personal or anything against you and she didn't want to hurt your feelings. I think the key for second chances is that she didn't do anything wrong towards you like cheat on you or lead you on. I am not sure someone deserves a second chance if they hurt you the first go round.
She didn't really do anything "that" bad to you. It's not like she kept standing you up, wasting your time, etc. etc. Really not a big deal.
When I saw the thread title at first I was like, "never let your pride get trampled on when dating" i.e. don't be a pushover or let someone treat you poorly.
Then I read the thread, and yeah what she did sucked, but it wasn't anything that huge to you personally. Maybe she had other things going on, on the side, that she was unsure about.
She removed me from FB when she got engaged. While she never did anything wrong to me I don't know how I would feel if she wanted to try to reconnect beyond being FB friends.
[Snip.] Like I said, a unicorn. [Snip.]
Yeah she does sound like a Unicorn. Removed you from FB because she was engaged? Really?
However she told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship then 2 weeks later she is in a relationship. 2 months after that she got married. 6 months later divorced. She removed me from FB when she got engaged. While she never did anything wrong to me I don't know how I would feel if she wanted to try to reconnect beyond being FB friends.
Mod cut: Image deleted. Like I said, a unicorn.
I don't think she was really interested in you to begin with. And besides, six months into a failed marriage raises some red flags.
I have a friend like this, I had a romance with him in my late teens, then he married in 2008.We chatted and talked about our past.Last year he is divorced but I'm not going to pursue him he chose another.And like another poster said the marriage was short.You do wonder what happened?
Fyi, a unicorn means looks AND personality. A woman who would so foolishly marry a man so soon then get divorced so soon after is far from a unicorn in my book.
We didn't date long enough for me to get a good judge of her personality. I do agree that 'Unicorn' is the complete package of looks and personality. I asked the mod if I can post a link to a page that has her photos for that wanted to see her.
Who cares what she looks like, it has nothing to do with anything. Are you trying to show off? Prove you like women who are attractive? Get over it, move on.
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A woman from 2.5 years ago recently added me back to Facebook. I was really interested in her and she had the mythical 'unicorn' status with me. However she told me that she wasn't ready for a relationship then 2 weeks later she is in a relationship. 2 months after that she got married. 6 months later divorced. She removed me from FB when she got engaged. While she never did anything wrong to me I don't know how I would feel if she wanted to try to reconnect beyond being FB friends. 
