Guy says I make him think too much?? (woman, kissing, sex)
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This guy who is 28 years old and I'm starting to get to know each other after we met briefly at a restaurant while I was having dinner with my friends. We plan on hanging out this coming week. We talk almost everyday mostly through texts, and sometimes on the phone. He's usually the first to text me everyday. Today we were texting, and he says these things:
"You're good at making me reflect on myself haha. You have some weird effect on me. You make me think too much."
Means he's kissing your asz and telling you what he thinks you want to hear! It seems to be working too.
Seriously, he seems to be trying to show that there is some sort of "mental connection." It's not bad, I'm sure his intentions ( *cough*getting laid) mean well.
Means he's kissing your asz and telling you what he thinks you want to hear! It seems to be working too.
Seriously, he seems to be trying to show that there is some sort of "mental connection." It's not bad, I'm sure his intentions ( *cough*getting laid) mean well.
I agree with this. People say all types of things to get what they want. Not saying he is a bad guy but I believe the connection is a good. Heres a tip dont pay attention to what people say, pay attention to how they react. Read people body language that works most of the time.
All guys intentions are to get laid. Only after sex occurs can an honest conversation happen.
I've been on this forum for much longer than I care to admit and you.. you are probably the only guy I've ever thought this about... you really really appear to have a sex addiction... you can't mention a thread without talking about getting laid... I mean really... I'm not offended or am I trying to talk smack to you and yeah, you're right to a degree... most men only want to get laid... but not all and not by a long shot... there are plenty of guy out there that are respectful and getting tail isn't their only mission....
But you... you are a woman's nightmare in term of that... you'd never be satisfied... I imagine you'd have a woman ball ya 2 times a day and you'd still find a way to mention or complain about not getting enough.....
I, like all men, like sex... really .... but you take it to a level that warrants a bit of professional help........
The point I'm making is that the OP had nothing what so ever to do with sex and you steered the convo right back to that same same same tired ass subject of getting some....
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Originally Posted by sunny85
Today we were texting, and he says these things:
"You're good at making me reflect on myself haha. You have some weird effect on me. You make me think too much."
Idk why, but whenever I hear this now it makes me want to run for the hills!
I'm not sure if I can come to the same conclusions as the previous posters that his intentions may be...bad, but in my experience when I've had a guy say "I feel like I can be open with you," or "I feel like you challenge me to see the world differently" blah blah blah, they eventually pull the "disappearing act."
I don't know if it is because like the other two posters said--they're just looking to butter you up--or its because they fall too quickly and it scares them?
But either way, no one should have this much influence on someone this early into the "relationship."
All guys intentions are to get laid. Only after sex occurs can an honest conversation happen.
There is much projection in your words.
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