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I'll be blunt. There are probably several possibilities why your wife doesn't want to have sex with you very often.
1. Sex for her isn't satisfactory. Why bother getting all worked up if it doesn't have a happy ending?
2. She is angry at you and who wants to have sex with someone they have bad feelings toward.
3. She is angry at you and withholding sex as a way to "punish" you.
4. She has physical issues that make sex painful or uncomfortable. (painful intercourse is one of the symptoms of cervical cancer).
5. You have belittled her lovemaking or physical appearance and she does not feel comfortable sharing her body with you.
6. She has no romantic/love feelings toward you and has no interest in sharing her body with you if she can help it.
Time for a heart to heart to see what the real problem is. Only when you identify the reason can you both begin to work on it.
"The Proper Care and Feeding of Husbands" by Dr. Laura should be mandatory reading for all wives. Follow that advice. We can control ourselves. His wife chooses to be angry.
Exactly! It's probably something petty because if it really bothered her should we bring it up.
Have you LISTENED to your wife? Like, when she explains what's going on in her world, your world, her suggestions, opinions. Do you engage her? Are you on her side OR do you 'tell her about herself' by telling her she's controlling, self absorbed, etc. Do you belittle her?
Don't know what I mean? Well, basically if she said to YOU what you say to HER, would it hurt you? Damage your ego?
I can't begin to explain to men that when a woman doesn't feel valued, especially with her spouse, don't be surprised if the intimacy and sex go dull to nonexistent.
I'll be blunt. There are probably several possibilities why your wife doesn't want to have sex with you very often.
1. Sex for her isn't satisfactory. Why bother getting all worked up if it doesn't have a happy ending?
2. She is angry at you and who wants to have sex with someone they have bad feelings toward.
3. She is angry at you and withholding sex as a way to "punish" you.
4. She has physical issues that make sex painful or uncomfortable. (painful intercourse is one of the symptoms of cervical cancer).
5. You have belittled her lovemaking or physical appearance and she does not feel comfortable sharing her body with you.
6. She has no romantic/love feelings toward you and has no interest in sharing her body with you if she can help it.
Time for a heart to heart to see what the real problem is. Only when you identify the reason can you both begin to work on it.
I agree with this. Your wife is angry because of marital issues between the two of you. It takes two to make a happy marriage. Until you two are happy with each other, there won't be much sex, if any.
You need to sit down and have a LONG talk and maybe even marriage counselling. Fix the marriage first.
Your wife is angry because of marital issues between the two of you.
Or could it be the wife is selfish, having an affair, etc? I wouldn't just assume it's the guys fault. Or the woman's fault for that matter. We don't know.
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Originally Posted by gouligann
You need to sit down and have a LONG talk and maybe even marriage counselling. Fix the marriage first.
Or could it be the wife is selfish, having an affair, etc? I wouldn't just assume it's the guys fault. Or the woman's fault for that matter. We don't know.
But it's always the guy's fault. Lol. Reminds me of some news segment staging domestic violence with a woman attacking a man and bystanders just laughing and assuming the guy did something wrong to deserve it.
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