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We have not been exclusive to each other yet , however I hold a crush for a long time and we were pretty good friends. Recently , she asked me whether or not I want to become her boyfriend.
However I was hesitant a bit, because I know that she has just been broken up for a month and I don't want to be her rebounce/second choice. I was saying something that hurts her feeling like "I suspected her feelings for me and we should remain to be good friend" .She told me I should have more trust her more and got really really mad with me, said that "We are done" .
This happened a week ago. Ever since I tried to contact her to apologize but she did not replied any of my calls or text. I know that she has not blocked me because when I texted her, she sill read it, but not replied and she just hang up every time I tried to call her. I was sad because I still want to care for her as a closed friend. Any suggestion to rebuild this relationship and make her to forgive me. I just want to stay as a closed friend as before.
She maybe very emotional because of the breakup. Especially if it was a break up where she felt rejected. And this may have added to that. Just express your concern about being a rebound and hopefully she will understsnd. If she still doesn't respond she may just need a little time
Stop texting her. Let some other guy be her rebound romance and deal with her emotional issues. When she grows up a little bit, she'll realize her mistake in treating you so poorly. And if not? You're better off without her.
We have not been exclusive to each other yet , however I hold a crush for a long time and we were pretty good friends. Recently , she asked me whether or not I want to become her boyfriend.
However I was hesitant a bit, because I know that she has just been broken up for a month and I don't want to be her rebounce/second choice. I was saying something that hurts her feeling like "I suspected her feelings for me and we should remain to be good friend" .She told me I should have more trust her more and got really really mad with me, said that "We are done" .
This happened a week ago. Ever since I tried to contact her to apologize but she did not replied any of my calls or text. I know that she has not blocked me because when I texted her, she sill read it, but not replied and she just hang up every time I tried to call her. I was sad because I still want to care for her as a closed friend. Any suggestion to rebuild this relationship and make her to forgive me. I just want to stay as a closed friend as before.
You sound a little iffy about her. She sounds very sure about you. Probably why she moved on.
You said you had a crush on her and were pretty good friends, yet when she asked you to be her boyfriend you hesitated. Seems like you're not sure of that situation yet she was. She probably thought you have her signs that you were interested, and you rejected it. She's probably upset and emotional maybe you should give her space.
She hates your guts right now, give some time, she'll come crawling back if she can't find anyone better. At that point I would do as you did before, tell her you aren't interested in rebound dating, but perhaps you wouldn't mind rebound sex (dope it out)?
I think you made a right decision. Just give her some time.
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