My Man Tracks My Cell Phone Using Software? (long-term, marriage, separate)
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Well you two started sleeping together after giving advice lol sooo there was trust issues from the beginning. You also let him put that software, and apparently you've lied. He had a girlfriend for ten years and you were married, yet it was ok to leave all that behind. You're right you two deserve each other lol good luck btw
Does anyone think that he will ever learn to trust me? He has said multiple times that he will try to find a way for us to be happy together and he has said that he can see a future for us. It's complicated right now because of his girlfriend and him still loving her, but he has said he doesn't love her the way he loves me. I've told him the exact same thing when it came to me and my ex-husband. I've had him meet my entire family and they all seem to love him despite them not knowing our entire story. I haven't met any of his family yet and I would love to fully be a part of his life. We have been through so much and I feel like he has been put into my life for a reason. I can't try to imagine my life without him.
no he will NEVER trust you.he is lying to you because he wants to get laid, and still keep his other girlfriends. men like this never settle down with one woman ever.
there is no future between you and him, at least not the future you envision.
what i see is you coming back here in a few months crying that he dumped you, probably because you got pregnant or his other girlfriend got pregnant, or both.
again my advice is to dump this guy, change your phone number, get a new phone, and NEVER let anyone put any kind of software on your phone.
My man tracks my cell phone calls, location, and text messages. How can I get him to trust me? I love my man very much. We started dating about eight months ago. At that time I was separated from my husband and he already had a girlfriend for about 10 years. I legally divorced my husband so that I can be with this man. We started sleeping together at the workplace after he gave me some advice about a difficult situation. I gave him permission to be able to use And install a cell phone monitoring device system to track everything on my phone such as texts, exact GPS location, etc so he can learn to trust me. Since we have been together I have messed up with a few things by lying about some serious stuff and I know that, however, he still loves his current girlfriend while he's dating me and I want him to make a decision. He keeps telling me how much he loves me and that we have a magical connection and he also wants to date for a little while before he gets married. I'm trying very hard especially since he's tracking cell phone to be honest and tell the truth about everything. how can I get him to trust me? I deserve him and he deserves me and I need him to make a decision and leave his girlfriend once and for all for me? I'm in love with him deeply and said he can see a future with me and I know I can see one with him at times but I feel frustrated and confused. This story is extremely true and I don't even know how to begin sorting out all of the pieces of chaos...
First, you don't GET someone to trust you, either they do, or you both go your separate ways.
Why would you give him permission to monitor your phone? Why do you need to get him to trust you that you would go to this level?
He loves you and his current and he still wants to date (which I'm guessing he already is).
You deserve him???? For what? He sounds like a loser and not a catch.
I don't know what happened with your first marriage, but it sounds like your confidence in yourself is at zero and you are buying what he is selling.
You do not deserve this guy, I am thinking he is selling this line to countless other women.
He has way too much control over you and is bad news.
You need to separate yourself from him and take some time for yourself -- maybe see a therapist to find out why you think this guy is so hot. Then find a real man who doesn't track your every move and where there is mutual trust and respect.
Does anyone think that he will ever learn to trust me? He has said multiple times that he will try to find a way for us to be happy together and he has said that he can see a future for us. It's complicated right now because of his girlfriend and him still loving her, but he has said he doesn't love her the way he loves me. I've told him the exact same thing when it came to me and my ex-husband. I've had him meet my entire family and they all seem to love him despite them not knowing our entire story. I haven't met any of his family yet and I would love to fully be a part of his life. We have been through so much and I feel like he has been put into my life for a reason. I can't try to imagine my life without him.
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