I cry myself to sleep laying next to my bf. (guy, emotionally)
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SO My bf and I, who have been together 3 years, always seem to get into an argument around bed time, and like the story above, I sometimes cry and he just tells me(usually pissed off yelling) to go to bed and rolls over and falls asleep....while im still crying!!! Ive talked to him many times about him not comforting me and it seems like he gets even more annoyed when I get emotional. I feel terribly lonely when we fight and often get depressed. He on the other hand sleeps through the night and acts like nothing happened the next day. I often think when im lying next to him asleep if we can really be together. How can two people be together when one doesnt aupport the other mentally physically and emotionally.
SO My bf and I, who have been together 3 years, always seem to get into an argument around bed time, and like the story above, I sometimes cry and he just tells me(usually pissed off yelling) to go to bed and rolls over and falls asleep....while im still crying!!! Ive talked to him many times about him not comforting me and it seems like he gets even more annoyed when I get emotional. I feel terribly lonely when we fight and often get depressed. He on the other hand sleeps through the night and acts like nothing happened the next day. I often think when im lying next to him asleep if we can really be together. How can two people be together when one doesnt aupport the other mentally physically and emotionally.
Why do you "ALWAYS" get into arguments at bedtime??
Why have you stayed for 3 years if you are this miserable and he is allegedly THAT unresponsive??
If you fight that often, and if he gives you a cold shoulder, consider that it's not a good match. It's not normal to fight that often.
What triggers these fights? Is there a pattern? Is it a certain unresolved issue? Have you tried talking it out? Why have you been with this guy for 3 years?
What are you constantly arguing about? Who is the instigator of these arguments most times? Is someone getting mad about stupid petty things?
Either way, you're gut is probably right. I would never stay in a relationship where arguing was a nightly ritual, regardless of who starts these things.
If you're crying on a regular basis you either are overly emotional, or not in a good relationship. Adjust accordingly.
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