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Old 11-26-2014, 09:07 AM
 
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I'm dating a guy who is 28 years old. We are both busy with work so when we are not meeting, we talk almost everyday. Last night, we had a serious talk over the phone. He said these things to me:

“You really help me think a lot about myself, not sure what triggered it. But I’ve been in self reflection mode since meeting you. You bring the old me back, the adventurous, energetic e, ambitious, me.”

And then we started talking about our relationship. He says:

“I didn’t want to like someone and wasn’t even looking to want to like someone. But it’s funny how life works because I think when you want something, it almost blinds you. But when you’re not looking for something, at times, it’s almost really clear.”

Then he continues to say, “I want to say…wait..have to give myself a good shake.. (he sounded like he had something big to say)”

“I’m kind of scared. I'm falling so hard. I’ve always been a guy who likes to reason things out, head over heart. I’m never quick to speak but I listen first and think and then respond. Because I always felt like thinking rationally is to think with your head and not with your heart. But it’s crazy because I like you a lot. As I’m getting to know you I’m liking you more and more. So this obviously new territory for me. I’ve never felt like this before with any girl..”

Is he beginning to fall in love with me?
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Old 11-26-2014, 09:11 AM
 
Location: NYC
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It sounds like it! Only he truly knows.
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Old 11-26-2014, 09:17 AM
 
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and to the friend zone he goes........

Honestly, if he was the type of guy that really knew what he was doing he would have gotten straight to the point and asked
you to be his girlfriend.

Sounds to me like he is unsure of himself and is trying to throw hints at you that he likes you.
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Old 11-26-2014, 09:18 AM
 
Location: California
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He most likely might be, if it is an issue with you, you might want to take a step back. Don't be as available as you were before, that might slap him back to reality.

If it is not an issue with you, have fun with the new adventure!!
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Old 11-26-2014, 09:23 AM
 
Location: Kingstowne, VA
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He wants the drawlls.
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Old 11-26-2014, 09:33 AM
 
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He wants the drawlls.

drawlls???



ahahahahahah....
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Old 11-26-2014, 11:06 AM
 
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I'm dating a guy who is 28 years old. We are both busy with work so when we are not meeting, we talk almost everyday. Last night, we had a serious talk over the phone. He said these things to me:

“You really help me think a lot about myself, not sure what triggered it. But I’ve been in self reflection mode since meeting you. You bring the old me back, the adventurous, energetic e, ambitious, me.”

And then we started talking about our relationship. He says:

“I didn’t want to like someone and wasn’t even looking to want to like someone. But it’s funny how life works because I think when you want something, it almost blinds you. But when you’re not looking for something, at times, it’s almost really clear.”

Then he continues to say, “I want to say…wait..have to give myself a good shake.. (he sounded like he had something big to say)”

“I’m kind of scared. I'm falling so hard. I’ve always been a guy who likes to reason things out, head over heart. I’m never quick to speak but I listen first and think and then respond. Because I always felt like thinking rationally is to think with your head and not with your heart. But it’s crazy because I like you a lot. As I’m getting to know you I’m liking you more and more. So this obviously new territory for me. I’ve never felt like this before with any girl..”

Is he beginning to fall in love with me?
I've noticed that about once a week, you post the text of a conversation with this guy and ask everyone to interpret it for you. This guy (if he is real) seems to be very communicative and direct, so I'm baffled as to why you need help interpreting what he says.
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Old 11-26-2014, 11:15 AM
 
Location: Hampton Roads
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He's still 28?
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Old 11-26-2014, 03:18 PM
 
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Is he saying the same kind of stuff when you are with him or is that talk his phone conversation?
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Old 11-26-2014, 03:19 PM
 
Location: Sugarmill Woods , FL
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I'm dating a guy who is 28 years old. We are both busy with work so when we are not meeting, we talk almost everyday. Last night, we had a serious talk over the phone. He said these things to me:

“You really help me think a lot about myself, not sure what triggered it. But I’ve been in self reflection mode since meeting you. You bring the old me back, the adventurous, energetic e, ambitious, me.”

And then we started talking about our relationship. He says:

“I didn’t want to like someone and wasn’t even looking to want to like someone. But it’s funny how life works because I think when you want something, it almost blinds you. But when you’re not looking for something, at times, it’s almost really clear.”

Then he continues to say, “I want to say…wait..have to give myself a good shake.. (he sounded like he had something big to say)”

“I’m kind of scared. I'm falling so hard. I’ve always been a guy who likes to reason things out, head over heart. I’m never quick to speak but I listen first and think and then respond. Because I always felt like thinking rationally is to think with your head and not with your heart. But it’s crazy because I like you a lot. As I’m getting to know you I’m liking you more and more. So this obviously new territory for me. I’ve never felt like this before with any girl..”

Is he beginning to fall in love with me?

YES he is.....
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