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I have been in relationships before, and have felt nothing like this.
This time, I am pretty sure she loves me. In fact, I am positive. And I am too. But for some strange reason, I am afraid to disappoint her, that I somehow won't live up to her expectations, that I won't be able to do enough. I just want her to be happy.
Advice appreciated
You have to do it. What is the use of sitting there, bottling up your feelings and torturing yourself because you can't express to her your true feelings? Why put yourself through that?
People like to know that they're loved, wanted, and appreciated. If you never tell her, she won't know and you'll be stuck all alone with your feelings. Just go for it.
You will be even more disappointed if you wait too long and someone else tells her what you wanted to say and she ends up with him. If that happens this will be your theme song that you won't be able to get out of your head. Seriously watch this video and anyone else reading this thread that has unspoken words, it should scare the hell out of you.
I have been in relationships before, and have felt nothing like this.
This time, I am pretty sure she loves me. In fact, I am positive. And I am too. But for some strange reason, I am afraid to disappoint her, that I somehow won't live up to her expectations, that I won't be able to do enough. I just want her to be happy.
While your post sounds genuine and sincere and I believe you don't want to hurt her or disappoint her.... but it's just not practical way of interacting with others in the world.
Be the best man you can be and that is all you can do, you will make mistakes and errors in judgment, but that's just life.
In the words of Doc Holiday, "Go grab that spirited gal and make her yours."
Loves?! What's all this talk of love before even going on a date?
She has been telling me she loves me for a year now...
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Originally Posted by skywalker2014
Go on the date without expectations. Here are a few tips:
1. Don't talk about other people.
2. Ask her open ended questions.
3. Say her name often, compliment her (not only about her looks but also about what she says "Oh that's a good advice" "Okay that's awesome" don't agree with her on everything but dont be disrespectful. If she is into "new age" for example and you are not, just say "interesting, but I think..." try to level the conversation on things you have in common.
4. Have fun
5. Remember: it's just a date.
Thanks for the tips
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Originally Posted by snugglegirl05
OP:
Regarding the bolded part in pink...
Exactly how do you know she loves you even though the two of you have not been out on a date?
She has been telling me this for a year. About once a month. And not as a joke. I can tell.
TO all:
Thanks for all the replies guys, I will definitely do it at the next possible opportunity.
Also, I forgot my password for the original account.
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