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Hey man, you owe me a new phone for making me spit beer all over it......As for the OP, I'm glad you didn't wait until you were 30 for this revelation......
It takes a great set between your legs to admit this. I haven't persued anyone since last year. But to be fair, the women that I was interested in had boyfriends, so I immediately backed off. But my case is that I'm not interested in too many women. However, today I met this incredibly funny female. I think she has a boyfriend so that's why I didn't peruse. And even though I don't find her physically attractive, her charisma more than made up for it. But she hangs out with the same group so I will see her again soon. But again, I do not get in between women and their boyfriends.
I almost forgot all about you, OP. I don't want to say that your window is closing, but at age 30, you're prime is quickly approaching. And before you know it, it will pass you by. I don't know what advice should i give you but I would try counseling, like other people have suggested. Either that or get some advice from close friends of yours.
They should shut down the Internet for a month just for its own good. On the flip side of that would be a bunch of threads like: "man I banged so many chicks the past month, why didn't you guys tell me this?" Instead of all these pity me please, I am a 57 year old virgin threads. The Internet is s crutch for the socially awkward, and needs to be removed if people are to not be such losers. I would recommend a trip to a dating consultant as opposed to a therapist. You want dates or medications and excuses?
How do you get along with guys? Old people, children? If you have problems in all those areas, it might actually be a social deficit. I don't like to throw labels around nor play armchair diagnostician...but it can't hurt to ask yourself these questions.
If it is JUST women, have you had an interest in women in general before this point but was afraid of approaching them? Or were you just apathetic? Or have you never really felt a "pull" toward women? That makes a difference too (IMO).
Are you a loner? If so, do you feel like that's because you're afraid of/uncomfortable around people, or are you happy that way and it just feels natural to you?
They should shut down the Internet for a month just for its own good. On the flip side of that would be a bunch of threads like: "man I banged so many chicks the past month, why didn't you guys tell me this?" Instead of all these pity me please, I am a 57 year old virgin threads. The Internet is s crutch for the socially awkward, and needs to be removed if people are to not be such losers. I would recommend a trip to a dating consultant as opposed to a therapist. You want dates or medications and excuses?
I'm socially award and a 31-37 year old virgin, but I'm not a loser. You could always take a personal break from the Internet if folks like me bother you so much.
Is this behavior abnormal? especially for a man who would like women in his life(I'm 23)? Not even in high school have I flirted/pursued a woman. I don't know what's wrong with me. But I made this realization just now. I was reading this book and it said a man should approach a woman who he is attracted to, by making her attracted to him by building attraction through flirting. A typical mistake beta males make is try to become her friend and then try to build attraction.
I realize I wasted so much of my life and missed out on a lot. All the girls(in my age group) I know are on a "high, bye" relationship with me. Initially a girl will tolerate my company but then later she will try to avoid or simply greet and leave ASAP.
I'm considering meeting with this one escort so I can touch a woman and gain experience with them quickly. Only thing stopping me right now is that I'm cheap.
I would recommend counseling first to address your confidence issues. The escort plan is you getting ahead of yourself. Get confident in yourself, become well rounded in various interests so you will attract a woman who interested in YOU not just in going to bed. There is time enough for all that to develop. First things first, because men can attract predatory women too, not just the other way around. Good luck.
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