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Old 12-15-2014, 03:13 AM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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What should I say? My plan is just to say, "Hey, Jennifer, do you remember last night when you said you wanted to hang out with me on Weds night? Is that still happening? "
Easy-peasy! "Hey Jennifer! What time did you want to get together Wed?"
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Old 12-15-2014, 06:25 AM
 
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What should I say? My plan is just to say, "Hey, Jennifer, do you remember last night when you said you wanted to hang out with me on Weds night? Is that still happening? "
NO, do not text her that. Assume she is coming, don't be insecure about it by asking if she even remembers and if it's still happening, that is not attractive, at all. Text her your address and the time to show up, something along the lines of "address, 8pm, we'll have a few drinks then head over to the party, sound good?". The sound good is to help her out if she's uncomfortable going over to your place first, some women are like that.

The drinks and hanging at your place is both to loosen you two up before the party, and to give something a chance to happen before the party. Hell you might not even make it to the party.
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Old 12-15-2014, 07:03 AM
 
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NO, do not text her that. Assume she is coming, don't be insecure about it by asking if she even remembers and if it's still happening, that is not attractive, at all. Text her your address and the time to show up, something along the lines of "address, 8pm, we'll have a few drinks then head over to the party, sound good?". The sound good is to help her out if she's uncomfortable going over to your place first, some women are like that.

The drinks and hanging at your place is both to loosen you two up before the party, and to give something a chance to happen before the party. Hell you might not even make it to the party.
She'll barely make it to my place in time to catch the bus to the party ... is what I think will happen.
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Old 12-15-2014, 07:42 AM
 
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She'll barely make it to my place in time to catch the bus to the party ... is what I think will happen.
That might happen, don't plan on it though. Have a bottle of wine/champagne and good music and a clean house ready to go. If you don't utilize it before the party you should after.
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Old 12-15-2014, 07:46 AM
 
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That might happen, don't plan on it though. Have a bottle of wine/champagne and good music and a clean house ready to go. If you don't utilize it before the party you should after.
Will do!
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Old 12-15-2014, 07:47 AM
 
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Just don't ask her to make you some blueberry pancakes right away. Not good for future endeavors with her.
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