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Old 12-22-2014, 05:51 PM
 
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She probably didn't want to give you business advice, but just feel included and like you actually wanted to talk about your life and what you were doing with her. Is there a reason to not talk about your business with her?
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Maybe she just wants to be included while you make your decisions, makes her feel more a part of your life. It really depends on what she is actually getting upset about. Is she is getting upset about the actual decision, or if she is upset because you aren't sharing your decision making process with her?
I guessing some version of the above ^^^^^.
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Old 12-22-2014, 05:52 PM
 
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Maybe she just wants to be included while you make your decisions, makes her feel more a part of your life. It really depends on what she is actually getting upset about. Is she is getting upset about the actual decision, or if she is upset because you aren't sharing your decision making process with her?
she is upset because i put down a payment without telling her i was going to do it , she went on about how i left her out of a big decision

we are serious about each other , she called me a while ago and said she over reacted , she can be a bit of a drama queen at times

no one is perfect and im not prepared to risk loosing her over it as i would most likely not find someone as good in her place , i did not however appologise or even agree that i understood where she was coming from
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Old 12-22-2014, 05:53 PM
 
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That type of behavior usually signals someone who hates to be disagreed with and likes to be in control.

If you ever do ask her advice, but then decide to go in a different direction of what she advised, she'll act as if you spit on her.

Nip her behavior in the bud now, or live with a control freak.
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Old 12-22-2014, 05:55 PM
 
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That type of behavior usually signals someone who hates to be disagreed with and likes to be in control.

If you ever do ask her advice, but then decide to go in a different direction of what she advised, she'll act as if you spit on her.

Nip her behavior in the bud now, or live with a control freak.
most women like to be in control , they are encouraged by society to be in charge in a relationship
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Old 12-22-2014, 05:56 PM
 
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she is upset because i put down a payment without telling her i was going to do it , she went on about how i left her out of a big decision

we are serious about each other , she called me a while ago and said she over reacted , she can be a bit of a drama queen at times

no one is perfect and im not prepared to risk loosing her over it as i would most likely not find someone as good in her place , i did not however appologise or even agree that i understood where she was coming from

A payment on what? (If it's a house, you might'a wanted to include the woman you've talked about living with)
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Old 12-22-2014, 05:57 PM
 
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A payment on what? (If it's a house, you might'a wanted to include the woman you've talked about living with)
no , i already own my own house , this is a commercial investment property
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Old 12-22-2014, 05:58 PM
 
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most women like to be in control , they are encouraged by society to be in charge in a relationship

Oh yeah? Sounds like you've watched too many sitcoms.
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Old 12-22-2014, 06:01 PM
 
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she is upset because i put down a payment without telling her i was going to do it , she went on about how i left her out of a big decision

we are serious about each other , she called me a while ago and said she over reacted , she can be a bit of a drama queen at times

no one is perfect and im not prepared to risk loosing her over it as i would most likely not find someone as good in her place , i did not however appologise or even agree that i understood where she was coming from
Ok, first off, that isn't her business. Secondly, being a drama queen, can get really old. What is she like your first girlfriend or something? Everyone is replaceable, even the seemingly perfect ones.
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Old 12-22-2014, 06:02 PM
 
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so my girlfriend and i are going out one year , i love her and she loves me

she is however a little over sensitive and precious , whenever i tell her about having made a decision in my business , she accuses me of not having discussed it with her before following through , now my girlfriend has no expertise in anything relating to business or investing and its not like its her money that is being spent but she comes out with these lines about how its insensitive not to include her in decision making etc

i love her but i do believe that a man should not have to consult his partner before making decisions which are exclusively related to his business
Red flag. Proceed with caution.
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Old 12-22-2014, 06:04 PM
 
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she is upset because i put down a payment without telling her i was going to do it , she went on about how i left her out of a big decision

we are serious about each other , she called me a while ago and said she over reacted , she can be a bit of a drama queen at times

no one is perfect and im not prepared to risk loosing her over it as i would most likely not find someone as good in her place , i did not however appologise or even agree that i understood where she was coming from
Whose money was it? Yours? None of her concern. Hers/jointly yours? Valid concern. Why is she meddling in your business decisions?
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