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Old 12-26-2014, 08:10 PM
 
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Change your haircut and be better groomed. Leave out the aspergers part for now.

You should have no problem getting dates online with that height. So you really don't have to change much.
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Old 12-26-2014, 09:57 PM
 
Location: Denver and Boston
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Maybe some women like all those cliches, I don't know. The Aspergers comment will pretty much guarantee that only women with Aspergers will respond, and given that there are 5+ times as many male as female Apies, I don't like your odds there. If the beard and that haircut is your thing, own it, but take better pictures, and include a full body shot. I don't know what was going on in that dark photo, but you look 45 in it. You are a 27 year old student, with odd hair, and I will assume "average" guy, I don't like your odds at OLD. Your best bet is to put in your profile that you like chubby women and target them.
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Old 12-26-2014, 10:07 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Maybe some women like all those cliches, I don't know. The Aspergers comment will pretty much guarantee that only women with Aspergers will respond, and given that there are 5+ times as many male as female Apies, I don't like your odds there. If the beard and that haircut is your thing, own it, but take better pictures, and include a full body shot. I don't know what was going on in that dark photo, but you look 45 in it. You are a 27 year old student, with odd hair, and I will assume "average" guy, I don't like your odds at OLD. Your best bet is to put in your profile that you like chubby women and target them.
Maybe that is his goal to find a woman with aspergers
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Old 12-26-2014, 10:26 PM
 
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Never admit you believe in gender equality you will be neutered. IMO most women need structure and discipline that only a manly man can provide or they turn into loose cannons.
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Old 12-26-2014, 10:30 PM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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I think the profile is nice...you're pretty clear about certain things and I doubt you'll get women that don't share your interests.
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Old 12-26-2014, 10:37 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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I think the profile is nice...you're pretty clear about certain things and I doubt you'll get women that don't share your interests.
Maybe, but he probably won't be getting himself a hot nympho, something most guys want
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Old 12-26-2014, 11:12 PM
 
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You deserve credit for posting your profile. Most people don't have the nerve. But if you want the truth...

Terrible pictures. Aspergers. You like cuddling, cooking, computers and believe in gender equality????

All I see is a big stamp on your forehead that says "Friend Zone Candidate" with big, neon lights flashing. That's if any woman can get past the pictures. Believe me, very few will. That's the 1st thing they'll look at before reading most of what you wrote.

If you want a chance, you must change those pictures. In real estate, there's a saying, the 3 most important words are location...location...location.

In OLD, the most important words are pictures...pictures...pictures.

Some will insist otherwise, but it's all about the visuals. You could be illiterate and oafish but if you looked like a supermodel, you would be flooded with responses. You're not a supermodel so you have to enhance what you have. Have some good pics taken and clean up your profile a bit.
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Old 12-26-2014, 11:15 PM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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Maybe, but he probably won't be getting himself a hot nympho, something most guys want
=c) I wonder how many guys title their profile "Hot Nymphos Apply Within"...
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Old 12-26-2014, 11:18 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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=c) I wonder how many guys title their profile "Hot Nymphos Apply Within"...
True story, I met one through online dating. But she turned out to be pretty damn psycho

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Old 12-26-2014, 11:21 PM
 
Location: Spokane, Washington
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True story, I met one through online dating. But she turned out to be pretty damn psycho
I'd say to specify that you're not looking for psycho, but every girl I know has a bit of crazy (myself included) and the ones that have more are the ones claiming to be totally normal.
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