Can I Ask Out A Girl While She's Working? (women, friends, attraction)

[maxutilperusd]

So I've been going to the same hair salon for a few years and I've had the same stylist the entire time. She had a new assistant start. My second time around, this new assistant did these things:

1. Ask me questions to keep some conversation going. I'm not the best conversationalist and can be aloof even with friends. I know it's part of her job to be nice and converse but I feel like most women wouldn't bother even in a service oriented job.

2. Near the end of my haircut, as I was sitting with my arms on the armrests, she leaned her thigh right on my hand while she was doing my hair. I pulled back slightly for some unknown reason, perhaps not to invade her space while she's working. Then she backed off and I put my hand back on the armrest. She put her thigh right against my hand again and this time I just left my hand there. It wasn't like 1 second. It was probably a full 10 seconds that her thigh was pressed up against my hand.

As a guy I am oblivious to clues, but I get the sense there's mutual attraction. Let's say I want to ask her out. How the hell do I do it in this situation while she's working, in front of all her coworkers, and I'm a customer who wants to continue going to my hair stylist regardless of what happens with this new assistant.

[usamathman]

Absolutely. There is no perfect time. Just make sure her boss isn't around. Get to the point. Don't take up her time.
Go after what you want buddy.

[Magnatomicflux]

I don't think it's appropriate to ask her at work, since her boss may here/see the interaction, which may get her in trouble.


On a side note: My dentist put her hands in my mouth. I think she likes me.

[usamathman]

Originally Posted by Magnatomicflux

I don't think it's appropriate to ask her at work, since her boss may here/see the interaction, which may get her in trouble.


On a side note: My dentist put her hands in my mouth. I think she likes me.

I have been asked out 3 or 4 times by women while they were working.

Has nothing to do with being appropriate.

[49ersfan27]

No. Never bother a woman while she's working.

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by usamathman

I have been asked out 3 or 4 times by women while they were working.

Has nothing to do with being appropriate.

While THEY were working. That's on them if they want to risk getting in trouble.

[pdizo916]

Just go for it and never look back. Always trust your gut.....

[Sydney123]

Originally Posted by Magnatomicflux

I don't think it's appropriate to ask her at work, since her boss may here/see the interaction, which may get her in trouble.


On a side note: My dentist put her hands in my mouth. I think she likes me.

Both hands?

[Magnatomicflux]

Originally Posted by Sydney123

Both hands?

Just one at a time. But my clue as to her intentions was what she did with her fingers. lol

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Sydney123

Both hands?

Let's hope it's not the "man hands" lady from Seinfield.