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Old 01-03-2015, 07:18 PM
 
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What is it about some people that just ooze sexiness

They don't have to be good looking.
Nothing physical.

Just an aura about them.
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Old 01-03-2015, 07:23 PM
 
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It's the way they handle themselves.
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Old 01-03-2015, 07:37 PM
 
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Just depends on how they handle themselves, and a combination of traits they have.

Like someone may be very chivalrous and kind, but if that's in combination with him being a doormat and/or a wuss, there's no appeal. If he's a guy that can handle himself and take care of business, doesn't let people walk all over him, that's great, but if it's in combination with him being arrogant and or controlling, that's not working.

So, they just need to have a balance of just the right traits.
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Old 01-03-2015, 07:51 PM
 
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It's the way they handle themselves.
Yes, but its hard to put it into words.

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Just depends on how they handle themselves, and a combination of traits they have.

Like someone may be very chivalrous and kind, but if that's in combination with him being a doormat and/or a wuss, there's no appeal. If he's a guy that can handle himself and take care of business, doesn't let people walk all over him, that's great, but if it's in combination with him being arrogant and or controlling, that's not working.

So, they just need to have a balance of just the right traits.
Good way to describe it.
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Old 01-03-2015, 07:58 PM
 
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No it's mannerisms, the way they walk, the way they carry a conversation, charisma, body language. .and so much more.
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Old 01-03-2015, 08:03 PM
 
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No it's mannerisms, the way they walk, the way they carry a conversation, charisma, body language. .and so much more.
Yeah, that too.

Its so hard to describe.

I wonder sometimes.if they are just born with it?
Or its something they have put together?
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Old 01-03-2015, 08:08 PM
 
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Yeah, that too.

Its so hard to describe.

I wonder sometimes.if they are just born with it?
Or its something they have put together?
A combination of both, watching others how they react to it and how their brain works.
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Old 01-03-2015, 08:12 PM
 
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What makes the definition even more so difficult to nail down is the fact that what is sexy for you might be a total dud for me.
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Old 01-03-2015, 08:12 PM
 
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I do believe that it's something people are born with....
It's definitely not something that is acquired....

The sexiest man I've ever met is devastatingly good looking....
Has a flawless body, he's a black belt, a former military man & is also a Scientologist.....
He literally oozed sex appeal, but when he opened his mouth & started talking OMG...yummm
He's got an ever so faint Southern drawl....
Even one of my other male friends said (half jokingly) that he'd go Gay for him-
He's that smoking hot

Women are drawn to him like magnets, lol
He doesn't even have to try.....
His sexiness is effortless
Those are the types I love......
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Old 01-03-2015, 08:17 PM
 
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What makes the definition even more so difficult to nail down is the fact that what is sexy for you might be a total dud for me.
This is true he may be sexy for me but not to others.
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