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First, yes, I do love her and that's a big reason I'm angry.
Second, yes, the guy absoloutely came across like a *hithead. But a part of me is asking like well yes he's a *hithead but why would she be with a guy like that? Andwhy would she do that with a guy like that and not with me?
Because we ALL make mistakes we wish we could go back and change or erase man. She probably thinks the guy is a douche and she probably can't believe she was with him at one time. Tell me that there is no relationship/date in your past you wish you could just erase
He was drunk. Your wife was not encouraging or entertaining his behavior.
Your anger is misplaced. It should have been with the man behaving so poorly toward your wife. In fact, you should have stopped listening and taken her out of the situation she was clearly not comfortable with.
He was drunk. Your wife was not encouraging or entertaining his behavior.
Your anger is misplaced. It should have been with the man behaving so poorly toward your wife. In fact, you should have stopped listening and taken her out of the situation she was clearly not comfortable with.
Look, I know the guy was way out of line. BUT, to say my wife was uncomfortable is just not the way it was. She was giggling when I first heard them!
Look, I know the guy was way out of line. BUT, to say my wife was uncomfortable is just not the way it was. She was giggling when I first heard them!
And your point? So she was giggling. She was trying to stop the conversation. You did nothing to help her. You knew he was out of line with your wife, and you did not step in.
You are making this about you wanting anal intercourse. Your wife is uncomfortable with it. Is this a pattern of making your wife uncomfortable? This man made her uncomfortable.
You owe her an apology for listening in and doing nothing. She does not owe you and explanation.
Why does this kind of thread resurface about every month??
Is this REALLY a common problem, that guys get mad because they find out their wife/GF did something with some other guy that they won't do with him??? I have literally NEVER known anyone who experienced this before I read CD.
You heard it wrong. She was not on the receiving end. Still interested?
Hah! That's what I was thinking too. Maybe she wasn't the receiver. Maybe this guy liked to be pegged. OP, how open are you to being on the receiving end?
At any rate, it sounds to me like she probably turned him down for the act as well. Maybe he felt like he needed to rib her about it. It would make more sense to me that he asked for that reason (trying to feel her out and see if she was open to it, just not with him).
Either way, it's in the past and you are being a jealous baby about the whole thing. Maybe she reluctantly tried it doesn't like it and doesn't want to do it again.
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Originally Posted by RonkonkomaNative
She was trying to stop the conversation. You did nothing to help her. You knew he was out of line with your wife, and you did not step in.
You are making this about you wanting anal intercourse. Your wife is uncomfortable with it.
You owe her an apology for listening in and doing nothing. She does not owe you and explanation.
Agree! And I'll add that sometimes people laugh when a situation gets uncomfortable. It's a very common reaction actually.
He was drunk. Your wife was not encouraging or entertaining his behavior.
Your anger is misplaced. It should have been with the man behaving so poorly toward your wife. In fact, you should have stopped listening and taken her out of the situation she was clearly not comfortable with.
This.
This thread just cannot stay PG-13. Thread closed.
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