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Old 01-12-2015, 07:48 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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No, you said I have a terrible personality, which seems terribly off topic. i Just come here after work and the gym to see if anyone can help me make sense of what I see every day.
My post was not an insult. It was a theory.

You say you are the total package on paper. Then, mysteriously, after the date, women are not into you.

My theory is that you must have a terrible personality. They like what they see online, but once they spend time with you they balk.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:48 PM
 
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Agreed. I have to work on that.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, Arizona
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No, you said I have a terrible personality, which seems terribly off topic. i Just come here after work and the gym to see if anyone can help me make sense of what I see every day.
You are attractive to so-called attractive women. You go on dates with them easily. They don't want to continue dating you after the first encounter.

Follow the breadcrumbs, bro.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:50 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Agreed. I have to work on that.
Surely you have some clue what the problem is. Has no woman ever gotten mad and really unloaded on you that you are just so (fill in the blank) and you're always so (fill in the blank)?

What is it you think you need to work on?
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:53 PM
 
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I boggle at the huge disparity of results guys claim to get with online dating. I can barely get one date a year, yet you say you get one or two a week (let alone with "9s and 10s", which I say is completely subjective but that's here-nor-there).


99% of guys take crap pictures and write crap profiles. By chance there are a few that get it all right but then go on to write an ending sentence of something incredibly stupid

Sure there might be 2000 guys within a few miles but on closer inspection, competition is non-existent (women know what I'm talking about).
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:53 PM
 
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I went far in extreme sports but am only the only person I know from that circle that went to a prestigious law school and now have a job. It's hard to understand that and now find a wife.
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:56 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I went far in extreme sports but am only the only person I know from that circle that went to a prestigious law school and now have a job. It's hard to understand that and now find a wife.
Hard to understand what??
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Old 01-12-2015, 07:57 PM
 
Location: Montana
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You're a guy that only contacts the blonde or brunette that looks fantastic in a bikini and also has a Graduate degree. She would be the best looking girl at the bar but also top of her class in a prestigious law school or some other program. What types of experiences have you had?

I am able to get one or two dates with women like this a week. But they seem to have an incredibly preconceived idea of what chemistry is, and if that is not felt immediately, they have no problem not getting together again because they are probably getting contacted by some many guys.
My experience is they don't even respond.
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:00 PM
 
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Hard to understand what??
I think what's he's trying to say is that because he's so amazingly talented and smart and athletic yada yada, that he deserves all the top tier women to be throwing their panties at him in awe.
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Old 01-12-2015, 08:01 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I think what's he's trying to say is that because he's so amazingly talented and smart and athletic yada yada, that he deserves all the top tier women to be throwing their panties at him in awe.
That's what I was afraid of. I was HOPING it would be something else.

OP, did your parents not teach you that it's more than just what's on the outside that counts??????????????
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