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Well, if I were the guy, there's probably not much you could say or do to win me back. Just being honest. I want to be with someone that I can count on who wants to be with me.
It does not matter what he knows or does not know you think he should do something you yourself was not willing to do then you got mad at him.
Move on and leave the man alone so he can find someone who does want to be with him even while on vacation and does not choose to remain casual about the relationship while expecting him to be committed.
Once I was on holiday however, I decided to just have fun with my friend and I didn't get in touch with my guy for a few weeks, and ignored his attempts to contact me
Lol. So it's ok for you to blow him off as and when you see fit, but when he doesn't make time for you, you get all bent out of shape?
I doubt there's anything you can do at this point to salvage the "relationship". You should just move on and leave him be. Hopefully though you've learned something and won't repeat the same mistake with the next guy you like.
And as a guy, I'm pleasantly surprised to note that the women replying in this thread have mostly come down on the guy's side on this.
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Lol. So it's ok for you to blow him off as and when you see fit, but when he doesn't make time for you, you get all bent out of shape?
And as a guy, I'm pleasantly surprised to note that the women replying in this thread have mostly come down on the guy's side on this.
Those of us who do not now and never have played these stupid games very much dislike women who do because it makes our dating/relationship lives so much more complicated.
(1) You didn't get him a Christmas gift (he got you one)
(2) He asked to stay in touch during your vacation and instead, you ignored him completely.
(3) You hooked up with another guy.
(4) You accused him of lying when he cancelled plans due to work.
(5) Now that he's ignoring you, you're interested in him.
Please cut this poor guy loose. He can do so much better than you.
LOL, what a hypocrite, you got mad because he didn't return texts right away, yet for weeks you didn't reply to any of his. WTH? You need to get off the high horse, and step into reality. You hooked up while on vacation and are really upset that the guy is dogging you out? Wouldn't surprise me if he found someone else, like you did, while you were away and not responding to his messages. Are you that desperate to want someone you didn't care about during your vacation?
You ignored his wishes to stay in touch while you were gone and then were upset when he did the same thing? Sounds like you ruined a good relationship by being selfish and careless. Learn from it I bet it's over.
Actions speak louder than words. Your blowing him off for three weeks after he made it very clear he wanted to hear from you spoke volumes to him. He found out you didn't care for him as much as he did for you, so he's moved on. Especially after that fight. That was the nail on the coffin.
It's over. Find a new guy.
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