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Well, today the boyfriend is working from home. I went grocery shopping and made him very happy by buying the ingredients for cheddar bacon burgers. He was hoping for ice cream, but instead I got him some healthier lowfat strawberry yogurt.
I do agree with drjones96's list completely except I would substitute some sort of non-NASCAR auto race instead of a football game on tv.
And yes, men do need praise and respect. I do thank my boyfriend profusely anytime he works on my cars or my house. As independent and a feminist as I am, I always let him know that he is a positive influence and addition to my life. We both like to thank the other person for being.
The one main thing that would make me melt is if she has a heart and great reverence for our Lord and Savior, Jesus. If she does, then I know I'll be able to trust her.
Back off, let them wallow in sports--feed their stomachs and don't hold back in the bedroom. Too may woman have hang-ups in the bedroom. The bedroom should be a playyard and nothing is off limits. A man basically want to be needed and treated like a king. Speak and feed him all the words that he desire. Every man likes a freak, especially one who could cook and put them first.
1. Give him 30 minutes of quiet meditation when he gets home from work. (Do Not Unload on him when he walks through the door, he may turn around and go back to work)
2. Let him watch a scheduled sporting event on TV and let him hold the remote. (Do not flip the channel to Lifetime in the middle of a football game...especially if there are other TV's in the house)
3. Offer to host poker night for his friends (Do not come barging into poker night with a scrapbooking group)
4. Tell him when you are in the mood for it. (Don't make little hints assuming he'll pick up on it and then later tell him how you wanted it)
5. Give him time for a hobby. (Don't plan out his saturdays for him 6 months in advance and don't dismiss his hobby as 'stupid' and run him down about it in front of his in-laws)
6. Leave him sexually alluring notes (Yeah guys like it too)
7. Make time to watch movies with him (No girly girly movies, watch those on your own time). When you're together, cuddled up watching a DVD and your mom calls either tell her you'll call her back later or take the conversation to the other room. Nothing upsets guys more than a rude movie interupter.
8. Go to the gym and work out with him.
9. Act confident and sexy about yourself in the bedroom (no guys I know enjoy it particularly when women talk about how fat they are when you're trying to initiate something)
10. Be flexible about bedroom activities and even come up with new ideas to surprise him. (Don't depend on him to always be the one to spice things up if you have things in mind)
11. Make his favorite meal as a surprise (something that only gets made every once in a while, not something he has at least once a week)
12. Let him spend time in the garage tinkering
13. Compliment his ...cough...size (even if he isn't that big...it helps)
14. Head....lots of Head
It all sounds like glorified babysitting too me. No thanks.
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