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Old 02-10-2015, 06:35 AM
 
Location: SacTown
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What's wrong with you woman
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Old 02-10-2015, 06:40 AM
 
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The physical abuse is reason enough to leave. No need for further details.
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Old 02-10-2015, 06:49 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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The physical abuse is reason enough to leave. No need for further details.
Seriously.

OP, you have all the advice you need. Stop posting and do something about it.
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Old 02-10-2015, 08:20 AM
 
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okay well technically i did not sleep with anyone but we did exchange some raunchy photos and I myself do consider that as cheating. but how do i tell the person i am in a relationship with

we have been together 8 months and its just i dont know how i would do this.......
i feel terrible, dirty, nasty and i didnt even physically sleep with anyone
its a shame i dont know why i did this

i'm afraid to tell because in the past accusations of cheating have been made and messages have been seen and things became so physical we got into a fist fight which resulted in me with a black eye and bloody nose

should i end this relationship??
His hitting you trumps anything you did.

Get out of this relationship before he kills you.
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Old 02-10-2015, 09:14 AM
 
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His hitting you trumps anything you did.

Get out of this relationship before he kills you.
i am out
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Old 02-10-2015, 06:35 PM
 
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i told him and he hit me
My point was that if you were going to tell him, you might as well just break up with him instead.

None of that matters now, though, because he's physically abusing you, which means you should get away from him quickly regardless of anything else.
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Old 02-10-2015, 06:37 PM
 
Location: Jupiter
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i'm confused all i know is if he found out he would not want to be with me
End this relationship. It does not sound healthy at all.
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Old 02-10-2015, 07:47 PM
 
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I'm glad you got away.

For future reference, you probably shouldn't put your hands on your partner. There is no excuse for him to hit you, obviously, but if you're violent first it can escalate a situation to where you can be seriously hurt. Can you talk to a counselor? They can advise you on impulse control and on what to look for in a partner. Good luck.
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Old 02-11-2015, 06:53 AM
 
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I'm glad you got away.

For future reference, you probably shouldn't put your hands on your partner. There is no excuse for him to hit you, obviously, but if you're violent first it can escalate a situation to where you can be seriously hurt. Can you talk to a counselor? They can advise you on impulse control and on what to look for in a partner. Good luck.
i didnt know that me shoving my partner in attempt to remove him from the door would have him react in a way of PUNCHING ME NEARLY OUT COLD. for no reason at all should i be contained in a house without my consent
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Old 02-11-2015, 06:59 AM
 
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i didnt know that me shoving my partner in attempt to remove him from the door would have him react in a way of PUNCHING ME NEARLY OUT COLD. for no reason at all should i be contained in a house without my consent
Nobody ever has the right to put their hands on you.

You said in your first post you got into a fist fight. When you put it that way it sounds as though you were just fighting, not necessarily that he was abusing you. It may not apply to your situation, but poor impulse control can escalate a bad situation into a worse one. If it doesn't apply to you then that's great. Don't be so defensive.
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