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Old 02-09-2015, 09:45 AM
 
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okay well technically i did not sleep with anyone but we did exchange some raunchy photos and I myself do consider that as cheating. but how do i tell the person i am in a relationship with

we have been together 8 months and its just i dont know how i would do this.......
i feel terrible, dirty, nasty and i didnt even physically sleep with anyone
its a shame i dont know why i did this

i'm afraid to tell because in the past accusations of cheating have been made and messages have been seen and things became so physical we got into a fist fight which resulted in me with a black eye and bloody nose

should i end this relationship??
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:47 AM
 
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okay well technically i did not sleep with anyone but we did exchange some raunchy photos and I myself do consider that as cheating. but how do i tell the person i am in a relationship with

we have been together 8 months and its just i dont know how i would do this.......
i feel terrible, dirty, nasty and i didnt even physically sleep with anyone
its a shame i dont know why i did this

i'm afraid to tell because in the past accusations of cheating have been made and messages have been seen and things became so physical we got into a fist fight which resulted in me with a black eye and bloody nose

should i end this relationship??

Read the words you just wrote and see if you can figure this one out from those words.
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:47 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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First of all, why are you with someone that you got into a fist fight with? Is this normal for you? Because violence is never acceptable in a relationship.

Secondly, how do you tell someone you've been cheating? You just come right out and tell them. Are you thinking of ending the relationship because you want to end the relationship or to avoid having to tell them that you cheated?
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:48 AM
 
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First of all, why are you with someone that you got into a fist fight with? Is this normal for you? Because violence is never acceptable in a relationship.

Secondly, how do you tell someone you've been cheating? You just come right out and tell them. Are you thinking of ending the relationship because you want to end the relationship or to avoid having to tell them that you cheated?
i'm confused all i know is if he found out he would not want to be with me
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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i'm confused all i know is if he found out he would not want to be with me
Why do you want to be with someone that hits you? I just don't get it. Get out of the relationship and in the future, don't hit people and don't let them hit you. If you hit people, stay single and get therapy. If you are getting hit, well, do the same.
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:54 AM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Don't tell him about the cheating, just suggest a threesome to make it up to him.
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:57 AM
 
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Don't tell him about the cheating, just suggest a threesome to make it up to him.
I second this!
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Old 02-09-2015, 09:58 AM
 
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If there is a past of physical abuse I wouldn't tell him. I would end things for your safety.
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Old 02-09-2015, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Fuquay Varina
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i'm confused all i know is if he found out he would not want to be with me

Why would you do something that you know your partner would leave you for if he found out?
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Old 02-09-2015, 10:01 AM
 
Location: Middle America
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I would just end things. None of this sounds like either of the people involved need to be in a relationship.
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