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I know you like to say that-- you've done so on dozens of threads-- but I've yet to see you convince anyone else. Do you really not see the irony of someone who dates an older man being so against other women dating older men? That's called projection. If you were happy with your own dating/relationship life you wouldn't be bothered by what others do with theirs.
There is a difference between my situation than many others, and why people!e don't get it is beyond me. We didn't find each other online, nor did he want to date me only because I am younger. I've never attacked relationships where people were like me. Rather, I've talked about the situations where men only want younger women, like online. There is a difference. Also, I don't consider 9 years an age gap. Notice I always mention wanting women younger enough to be his daughter? 9 years is not that range. But keep trying to prove my situation is the same as a man only wanting younger because of the reasons.
That's true. Plus they're more fertile. It's pretty obvious, really, it's hardly a mystery. I don't get why a woman's peak is considered to be in her 30s or 40s or whatever it is now. It's laughable.
I guess they figure if they say it enough, men will start to believe it. lol
They want to have fun in their 20's and still be able to catch the most desirable man when they're in their 30's.
That's true. Plus they're more fertile. It's pretty obvious, really, it's hardly a mystery. I don't get why a woman's peak is considered to be in her 30s or 40s or whatever it is now. It's laughable.
How dare people want to have fun in their 20s! The nerve.....
Go ahead, spend the years when you look the the best, partying and hooking up with a bunch of dudes. Just don't wait until you're 35 and then rush to find a man, when you're nowhere as desirable as you used to be, and then complain about how there's no good men out there.
I don't get why a woman's peak is considered to be in her 30s or 40s or whatever it is now. It's laughable.
Dumkopf who is no longer here is looking at this from a typically sexist point of view and assuming it's all about how men feel about women, which is not what people mean when they say women peak in their 30s.
It means her 30s is when a woman's libido is at its peak. Estrogen starts to drop off before testosterone, and the disproportionate amount of testosterone means the sex drive gets stronger.
In other words, not every discussion about women's bodies and sexuality have to do with MEN and what MEN want from a MAN'S point of view. You're not the center of the universe, and not everything is couched in terms that include YOU.
Go ahead, spend the years when you look the the best, partying and hooking up with a bunch of dudes. Just don't wait until you're 35 and then rush to find a man, when you're nowhere as desirable as you used to be, and then complain about how there's no good men out there.
Are you implying that people, women in particular, should be marrying in their early 20s?
Are you implying that people, women in particular, should be marrying in their early 20s?
If you reread his posts and think for a few seconds, you'll know that he implies women in their 20's (not specifically early 20's) should devote more time to building a stable relationship (not necessarily getting married) so that they minimize the chance of ending up single in their 30's.
Are you implying that people, women in particular, should be marrying in their early 20s?
There's quite a bit of room between getting married in your early 20's and waiting until you are 35 to try and get a man. In the early 20's you are at an increased risk of divorce, but at 35 you generally have fewer men than women and would be considered a high risk pregnancy should you choose to have kids.
Go ahead, spend the years when you look the the best, partying and hooking up with a bunch of dudes. Just don't wait until you're 35 and then rush to find a man, when you're nowhere as desirable as you used to be, and then complain about how there's no good men out there.
More sexism: Women, better hurry up and take whoever will have you before no one will have you at all!
Too bad it doesn't work that way. Attractive people generally stay attractive, and good people are good people. Plenty of women meeting good men and getting married in their 30s--to men their own age, to boot.
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Dumkopf who is no longer here is looking at this from a typically sexist point of view and assuming it's all about how men feel about women, which is not what people mean when they say women peak in their 30s. 