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Old 02-24-2015, 04:18 PM
 
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so its officially over we have not seen eachother in two weeks he called my job once and gave me his email but i have not contacted him

what do i do now with myself??????
how do you cope with a break up yes he beat me yes we fought and hit each other but i still loved him
still do he was my best friend he put with all of my crap and i put up with his he was faithful to be despite all that has happened with my actions

what do i do please
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Old 02-24-2015, 04:21 PM
 
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Eat drink and be merry
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Old 02-24-2015, 04:21 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Why the heck would you WANT to be with guy who beats you?????
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Old 02-24-2015, 04:24 PM
 
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Why the heck would you WANT to be with guy who beats you?????

X's a million.

How do you cope with not being beaten? You thank the universe for getting you out of that situation and find anything to keep you busy and away from that mess.

If you give in and go back to him just remember it is YOUR CHOICE ALONE to live like that, fight all the time and get beat on.

Do you really want to live your life like that?
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Old 02-24-2015, 04:25 PM
 
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what do i do please
Therapy.
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Old 02-24-2015, 04:29 PM
 
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you guys may remember me from my previous posts
//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...rtner-you.html

//www.city-data.com/forum/relat...-him-back.html


so its officially over we have not seen eachother in two weeks he called my job once and gave me his email but i have not contacted him

what do i do now with myself??????
how do you cope with a break up yes he beat me yes we fought and hit each other but i still loved him
still do he was my best friend he put with all of my crap and i put up with his he was faithful to be despite all that has happened with my actions

what do i do please
Huh??? What do you do?

You thank your freakin' lucky stars that you are out of this worthless relationship. Have a drink. Go see a movie. Buy some new clothes. Hell I can think of a HUNDRED things to do to celebrate.
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Old 02-24-2015, 05:00 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Find a women's battered support group ASAP. Your emotions are running high, you don't want to be with an abuser.
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Old 02-24-2015, 05:03 PM
 
Location: Earth
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Find a women's battered support group ASAP. Your emotions are running high, you don't want to be with an abuser.
The OP is a man. In a relationship with another man. I don't think a woman's shelter will work. And he lives with his parents.
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Old 02-24-2015, 05:04 PM
 
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What do you do? You throw a freaking party because you are no longer with a man who beats the **** out of you.
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Old 02-24-2015, 05:14 PM
 
Location: Subconscious Syncope, USA (Northeastern US)
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Therapy.
Yes.
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