Help me with my first time dating with Aquarius guy pls. Really need your helps (long distance, guys)
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Me and my aquarius guyfriend are/were dating for a month.
It's my 1st time in my life dating someone... So I'm so dumb about this.
-He didn't ask ask me to date. One day he just mentioned that we're dating out of the blue.
-We went to 3-day trip together when we started dating.
-We don't have sex... but we kinda touched each other and help each other out.
-I told him that I will save my virginity until marriage. He said he won't push me, but sometimes he kinda made a joke about having sex with my on the text.
-He keeps our relationship secret from all of his friends even our best friend.
-We're in a long distance relationship (2 hrs away)
-He's still in school and I'm already done.
-He showed up late twice on our dates... 1st time, he was at the casino. 2nd time, he was at the potluck party with his friends
-We argued during the valentine's day. I wanted him to come visit me. First time, he said "maybe"
Second time, he told me that he wanted to stay at his apt to watch NBA all star game in Valentine's weekend. I was upset... So he changed his mind after knowing that I was upset = He's coming.
Third time, he told me that he's broke. I was too tired of his excuses... and told him that he didn't need to come anymore. Of course, he changed his mind again and he's going to see me in Valentine's day.
- However, on Friday before Valentine's day, another problem came up. But it's from me this time.
My parents don't want me to date yet... as I'm going to law school next semester. Of course, my bf knows it since we're friends. And my parents will follow me around during the valentine's weekend.
So I told my bf that I was going to cancel the hotel, and I can spend time with him only for 3-4 hours.
His respond was: "Go and cancel the hotel. I'm not going to see you bc you're not nice at all."
I told him, "my parents" But he still told me that he's not coming to see me.
I tried to call him, text him, but he didn't answer at all. So I left him alone for awhile.
I called him again later that night. I asked him if he's mad at me and why... I wanted to solve this problem out.
He said: "I'm not mad. You don't need to know the reason"
So I kept asking him why he's mad at me, and I care about him. I also told him that my parents don't want me to date. But bc I'm serious about him so I told my parents about my bf. My parents want us to stay friends and get to know each other.a
His respond was "I'm serious too. I'm not going to see you" and hung up
So... I was tired of all of these problems.. and I was about to tell him to be just friends. So I texted him to pick up my phone one last time.. and I will be done.
His respond was "I'm not going to pick up the phone and answer your questions anymore. You don't have authority to question me. Done!"
So I left him alone and we didn't talk for a day.
He started to talk to me on the group chat (my friend told me)... but that time I already unfriended him and deactivated my facebook.
Feb 16th, I texted him Happy Birthday.. and told him that we're not friends on facebook anymore. And I added him already but he hasn't accepted yet. He pretent that he didn't know.. and he still hasn't accepted my friend request :'(
We still text.. but not alot like before. He doesn't initiate the text to me as much as like before we argued.
He texted me last night that he got my valentine's card on the mail.
He said, "Thanks babe... from my deepest heart"
I texted him 2 days ago if he wanted to see me this Sunday.... He told me that he had a plan with his friend already (I knew about it too)... and he also said that my parents won't let me go out bc it's chinese new year weekend (I'm chinese).
My questions are: Does he still like me?
Do I still have a chance to go back with him?
Why he still hasn't accepted my friend's request?
What should I do after this?
My friend told me that I should forget about him, move on, and cut all of the contacts with him.
uhhhhh.. you're in college??? You literally sound like you're 12..
I think your parents are right, you shouldn't date yet.
I think you should just focus on school right now. It doesn't seem like you guys really have the ability to maintain a relationship anyway because of the distance and your parents.
Are there any chances that me and my bf will come back together?
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