Why am I so upset about this? (girlfriend, girl, sex)
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Around last year sometime I grew very close to a male friend. We are both 19 years old. He was a virgin at the time of us meeting and we kind of fell for each other in some way. We would talk ALL the time, go out, we would both tell each other we liked each other etc etc, he made me feel that I was the only girl he was interested in.
Around a week into this whole thing he pretty much broke my heart (even though it had been going on for some time before this, but we weren't official and in this 1 week it seemed to get more serious) he told me he met up with another girl. First he told me he had sex with her, then he told me he was only telling me they had sex because he thought that I wasn't keen on him being a virgin and he thought it would impress me but it didn't so in the end he told me he was lying and that she only gave him a blowjob.
I was pretty upset about this and I told him we could only be friends.........
Well around a month ago we started talking again, we had a conversation about this whole thing. He told me he only ever met up with her once, she only ever gave him a blowjob and that he didn't even like her anyway. The only reason he did this was to try and get some experience before it happened with me, which I found laughable to be quite honest. But I just said like let's put it behind us and start off where we left off sort of thing, like if you're honest with me about it then I can try and forget it..
Something weird happened and I ended up speaking to this girl who he got with as she has recently got into a relationship with my Cousin. She told me everything and basically what he told me was a load of trash. He used to go to her house all the time and smoke weed with her and they did have sex, more than once.
So he's lied to me and I don't really know what to do? as we weren't together and this was a year ago but then I don't like liars. I've been very short with him since I found out and he's been asking me what's wrong but I haven't said anything, yet.
Do I confront him on lying to me? or do I just put it down to him being an idiot around a year ago? he tells me he likes me and he wants to be with me but I'm not so sure.
My advice would be to move on to someone who isn't a liar.
I agree with this. The guy sounds like a player who tells you what you want to hear, then back-peddles trying to save himself when he's called on his lies.
So, I think he wants you as a booty call rather than any kind of serious girlfriend.
You're upset because you found out the person who you wanted to believe is a good guy is really a sleaze bag that is lying to you so you will eventually have sex with him and be used. Makes sense to me!
My advice would be to move on to someone who isn't a liar.
I agree.
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