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Old 02-28-2015, 09:38 AM
 
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hello everyone so i know you guys already know who i am and my whole ordeal but tonight we have decided to meet up for a talk just so soldify everything and let it be known that i will be going my own way

now my problem is he always finds a way to change my words around or convince me to stay

please tell me how i can be firm about not being with him please i need all the help i can get

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Old 02-28-2015, 09:39 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Why on earth are you meeting with him? You have already talked to him enough times. Do not meet with him. That's it. The end.
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Old 02-28-2015, 09:43 AM
 
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um...by not going to this meet up.
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:03 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Not a smart move. But then again, nothing you do seems to be smart.
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:10 AM
 
Location: In a place beyond human comprehension
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Why in sam hill are you going to meet him?

Stop finding excuses not to move on.
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:15 AM
 
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Not a smart move. But then again, nothing you do seems to be smart.
there is no need to be rude
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:17 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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there is no need to be rude
Well, in all honesty, this is the third thread you've started about basically the same exact thing - and pretty much every single person has given you the same advice. And you've pretty much ignored it. So - it's only to be expected that people have basically had enough of trying to be helpful since you don't really want to be helped.
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:35 AM
 
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Well, in all honesty, this is the third thread you've started about basically the same exact thing - and pretty much every single person has given you the same advice. And you've pretty much ignored it. So - it's only to be expected that people have basically had enough of trying to be helpful since you don't really want to be helped.
i dont want to be helped thats why i'm asking for the help
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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i dont want to be helped thats why i'm asking for the help
I have no idea why you are asking for help when you already know what we are going to say and you already know you aren't going to listen to us. Did you really think anyone here was going to say that it was a good idea for you to meet with this guy again?
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Old 02-28-2015, 10:55 AM
 
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i dont want to be helped thats why i'm asking for the help
You ask for advice, and then ignore it. So what Dewdroplet is saying is why bother asking? Meeting up is a mistake. It's unanimous at this point.
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