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please tell me how i can be firm about not being with him please i need all the help i can get
Don't show up or make any effort to let him know that you will not be there. He'll get the message loud and clear. This meeting is just another manipulation to make you do what he wants so don't do it.
There's only so much advice and support that can be given.
At some point, you're going to learn when you learn. If you need to get punched in the face a few more times before you realize it's time to go, then that is what needs to happen. I don't see why you keep returning to these forums, posting the same nonsense, only to read the same mundane advice.
You've admitted that you're not ready to help yourself. So, all that's left here is for that guy to do something to you that will finally knock some sense into you (pun intended). The straw that broke the camel's back, so to speak.
I don't mean to say that harshly. But I've been in this place. I got all advice in the world, everyone told me to walk away, but I kept with it. It wasn't until my world got turned upside down that I decided to walk away, once and for all. So just sit and wait for that catalyst because it's coming.
hello everyone so i know you guys already know who i am and my whole ordeal but tonight we have decided to meet up for a talk just so soldify everything and let it be known that i will be going my own way
now my problem is he always finds a way to change my words around or convince me to stay
please tell me how i can be firm about not being with him please i need all the help i can get
No need to talk! Let's face it, women TALK, men ACT. He knows the score, no need to talk...unless you WANT to get talked out of leaving....be honest with yourself.
i just dont know what to do i feel bad because he came out for me
Yeah, and he beats the hell out of you as well. He needs help with his abusive behavior, and you need help getting your self-esteem and self-respect off the ground and learning to make better choices before you ruin your entire life over this guy.Work on self-improvement, and you may actually attract better partners. But that won't happen if you stay in neutral with this guy.
So, both of you need to stay away from one another. Or, as many here have said, get back with him and let him beat the hell out of you, but don't ask for advice if you know you won't listen, and the advice stays the same and you'll just have the same problems again in a week. It gets old, and starts to seem like attention-seeking / trolling after a while.
If you wanna keep seeing the guy fine, but don't whine about the abuse, because if you're going to stay, you have no right to complain or whine about it. Why? Because you already know what this guy is about. Him beating you comes with the package.
If you wanna leave, then you need to stay away from him, ignore him, talk to your parents, and stop coming up with excuses to talk to him again.
Those are the choices.
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