I don't know what to do... (relations, honest, young)

[Ruth4Truth]

Still, she's not trustworthy, right? She's been lying about it repeatedly.

If she weren't interested in him, there would be nothing to lie about. She'd discuss it with you, she'd say, "Oh, he's sending me cr@p again", and you might say, "Why don't you block him?", and that would be the end of it. But she hasn't blocked him, and she's lying about stuff.

It won't get any better.

[kg1997]

She has him blocked now. On everything. I guess I just really don't want to accept that maybe we aren't meant to be..

[cam1957]

If she's lied to you this early in the relationship, it's only gonna get worse.

[Ruth4Truth]

Originally Posted by kg1997

She has him blocked now. On everything. I guess I just really don't want to accept that maybe we aren't meant to be..

It happens. To everyone, pretty much. This is how you learn about people, about what works and doesn't work for you, and how you get experience.

[howdydoody342]

your only 18, now is the type to meet and date different girls, dont get blinded by someone who lies to you.

[CarbonCountyLiving]

I just want to clarify: did she do anything to encourage him? Or was he hitting on her?

You are young. I know young folks hate to here this, but in 15 years you will likely look back and wonder why you thought you were in love. If it really bothers you, just end it. You have too much of your life ahead of you to waste it on someone you can't trust.

[kg1997]

Thanks for your help guys. I have a lot of deciding to do and I'm not looking forward to it

[kg1997]

Originally Posted by CarbonCountyLiving

I just want to clarify: did she do anything to encourage him? Or was he hitting on her?

You are young. I know young folks hate to here this, but in 15 years you will likely look back and wonder why you thought you were in love. If it really bothers you, just end it. You have too much of your life ahead of you to waste it on someone you can't trust.

No she wasn't encouraging it. He was definitely hitting on her though.

[Old Town FFX]

Originally Posted by kg1997

She has him blocked now. On everything. I guess I just really don't want to accept that maybe we aren't meant to be..

You're 18. You shouldn't be locked into that mindset.

[kg1997]

Originally Posted by Old Town FFX

You're 18. You shouldn't be locked into that mindset.

I'm not into the whole one night stand stuff. I wanted long term. I know I'm young and have a lot in front of me but that's just how I look at relationships.