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Old 03-02-2015, 02:40 PM
 
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So my girlfriend and I have been dating for a little over six months now and until about a month ago everything was perfect. Now it seems we are stuck in this pattern of fighting breaking up and getting back together. Here’s what is going on..
About a month ago my girlfriend received a text from E. He said he had a weird question and the question ended up being “[something inappropriate]?” Well she denied everything but after talking to him as her he sent nudes he had and all of this stuff. Well you can see why this caused problems. I don’t trust her anymore. She has lied to me 5 or 6 times about her past. I don’t understand why, I have told her time and time again that what she did in the past doesn’t change my view of her. We are stuck in this pattern now of fighting, breaking up, and getting back together. I don’t know what to do. I really do love her but I can’t get past this. I don’t know if I can much less how to rebuild trust with her. What should I do? Thanks

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Old 03-02-2015, 02:44 PM
 
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How old are you?
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Old 03-02-2015, 02:45 PM
 
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Why are you still with her? You dated awhile, now that you know her better, you found out she's not the girl for you. Move on. Better luck next time.
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Old 03-02-2015, 02:48 PM
 
Location: San Diego, CA
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She lied to you 5 or 6 times in the past? Things are not going to change. Cut your losses and move on. You'll always be second guessing this person.
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Old 03-02-2015, 03:01 PM
 
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I have so many good times though. I can't see myself without her.. This is so hard. All of our arguments are over this topic and the trust issues. I'm 18.
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Old 03-02-2015, 03:10 PM
 
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She won't change. You can have good times with a more trustworthy girl.
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Old 03-02-2015, 03:13 PM
 
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I have so many good times though. I can't see myself without her.. This is so hard. All of our arguments are over this topic and the trust issues. I'm 18.
Learn to see yourself without her. It's inevitable, since you won't be spending the next 70 years of your life with her. Sooner or later, you'll be without her. The sooner you move on, the sooner you'll find happiness with someone who doesn't lie and cheat. Why prolong the torture, the fights?
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Old 03-02-2015, 03:15 PM
 
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I completely forgot to mention this was all in the past.. Kind of a big part I know. The stuff she did with this guy was over 9 months ago.
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Old 03-02-2015, 03:17 PM
 
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I completely forgot to mention this was all in the past.. Kind of a big part I know. The stuff she did with this guy was over 9 months ago.
But he contacted her a month ago, and she started lying about it?
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Old 03-02-2015, 03:20 PM
 
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Yes. They never talked until he texted her merry christmas. They talked for like an hour just small talk. Then he sent that like a month later.
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