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I guess in alot of ways I never put much thought into it.
In just over a month I'll be 24, and still a virgin. I don't know what it's like to be intimate with a woman outside of a hug or a casual date. The closest I ever got to dirty talk was with a girl I've described on this forum far too much, hell I even heard from her last month. But it wasn't good.
I stayed a virgin at this age primarily for 3 reasons. First, from my late-teens to roughly 20 I was fat. I was around 50 lbs overweight and living with my dying grandmother and mired in family issues. Second, it really tore my confidence apart, but it gradually got better as I started to date. And third, I wanted to finish college first.
I never truely thought much on why I never had sex yet, I just didn't focus on it.
But now, I don't know why, but it bugs me. I have told around 6 people that I am a virgin, they all act surprised. 4 of which were girls, one was Shayla, she was first to ask me if I was, then she seemed really happy about it and outright joked about taking it but then came around saying that because I'm an older virgin she has no reason to take it from me and then stopped talking to me. The other 2 didn't mind and one actively liked it. Another is an older lady-friend at a bar here who says they need to get me laid.
I don't know why I have this anxiety all of a sudden. I'm not bad looking, but I feel like I've been missing out.
Take a week or two trip to the Philippines. You can bang 2 girls a day for free easily through normal dates, attractive women at that. It will get you caught up to speed with your peers.
Take a week or two trip to the Philippines. You can bang 2 girls a day for free easily through normal dates, attractive women at that. It will get you caught up to speed with your peers.
Ha, no. I just switched over to a part-time job, so I can leave for back east.
Don't have the money for that kind of flyer miles.
Ha, no. I just switched over to a part-time job, so I can leave for back east.
Don't have the money for that kind of flyer miles.
Move in with your parents. I did that and worked a part time job at a poo restaurant after college and saved up for like 3 trips to various places around the world.
Where are you trying to meet women at? Don't just look at the bar scene or club scene. Online is a real option nowadays as there are tons of attractive females looking for that special someone. It will happen don't sweat it too much.
Please don't go to a third world country and have sex with a likely underage and probably enslaved prostitute. And I honestly can't believe I have to type a sentence like that.
Anyway, find a nice young woman who is genuinely interested in you and go from there, but sooner rather than later. The longer you wait, the more awkward it becomes - you don't want to be a 30 year old virgin.
I guess in alot of ways I never put much thought into it.
In just over a month I'll be 24, and still a virgin. I don't know what it's like to be intimate with a woman outside of a hug or a casual date. The closest I ever got to dirty talk was with a girl I've described on this forum far too much, hell I even heard from her last month. But it wasn't good.
I stayed a virgin at this age primarily for 3 reasons. First, from my late-teens to roughly 20 I was fat. I was around 50 lbs overweight and living with my dying grandmother and mired in family issues. Second, it really tore my confidence apart, but it gradually got better as I started to date. And third, I wanted to finish college first.
I never truely thought much on why I never had sex yet, I just didn't focus on it.
But now, I don't know why, but it bugs me. I have told around 6 people that I am a virgin, they all act surprised. 4 of which were girls, one was Shayla, she was first to ask me if I was, then she seemed really happy about it and outright joked about taking it but then came around saying that because I'm an older virgin she has no reason to take it from me and then stopped talking to me. The other 2 didn't mind and one actively liked it. Another is an older lady-friend at a bar here who says they need to get me laid.
I don't know why I have this anxiety all of a sudden. I'm not bad looking, but I feel like I've been missing out.
How badly do you want sex? If you could be having sex right this minute, is that what you want?
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