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Old 01-16-2008, 06:26 PM
 
Location: California
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Because I would beat him into a coma. J/K. He hates me, and I hate him. No love lost between us and I don't want a scene created. I just want this over with so I can stop driving myself crazy.
Thats a good reason not to go then. I would have rather had him meet her at work and bring her things. it will be ok, she is with you not him.
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:18 PM
 
Location: Weehawken, NJ
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Thats a good reason not to go then. I would have rather had him meet her at work and bring her things. it will be ok, she is with you not him.
He lives over an hour away in Central Jersey and she works in Manhattan so he better be bringing her things. If he doesn't, we are driving down there on Saturday and I will wait (patiently) in the car.
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:22 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Worst case senario is that she is going to meet him and together they will make fun of all of your faults. She might even make a few up. Like premature ejaculation or size does matter but whats the point. If this happens leave her imeadietly. She has no morals anyway.
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:27 PM
 
Location: Obama playing field
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Even worst yet, is that he only hands her old items back on the condition that she gives him a jolly good time, one last time. Then you deffinetly will have your knickers in a twist.. lmao
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Even worst yet, is that he only hands her old items back on the condition that she gives him a jolly good time, one last time. Then you deffinetly will have your knickers in a twist.. lmao
Worse still she comes home with his knickers on and they dont smell like they are freshly washed
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:33 PM
 
Location: Obama playing field
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Worse still she comes home with his knickers on and they dont smell like they are freshly washed
Hows about the condoms still sticking out from the knickers, still dripping? lol
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:34 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hows about the condoms still sticking out from the knickers, still dripping? lol
Dont believe anystories about burning her neck on a muffler either. I would inquire. Did you have those venerial warts before or after the vists?
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Old 01-16-2008, 08:58 PM
 
Location: the show-me state
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Come on now, folks! He didn't ask for a bunch of silly, insulting type stuff! I don't think you have anything to worry about HG. You know, in situations where couples have split up, and children are involved, they have to be in contact with each other many times, and for years at a stretch. I believe that if she still wanted this guy, she would still be with him. So, I say, just relax and be content that she is now YOUR woman, not HIS. I'm sneaking this post in from work, so I gotta go. Good luck to you and YOUR girlfriend!
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Old 01-16-2008, 09:03 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Come on now, folks! He didn't ask for a bunch of silly, insulting type stuff! I don't think you have anything to worry about HG. You know, in situations where couples have split up, and children are involved, they have to be in contact with each other many times, and for years at a stretch. I believe that if she still wanted this guy, she would still be with him. So, I say, just relax and be content that she is now YOUR woman, not HIS. I'm sneaking this post in from work, so I gotta go. Good luck to you and YOUR girlfriend!
Dennis is actually correct. I was making light of it because you worry for naught. Besides in my experience the quickest way to lose someone is the jelousy route. Its a big turn off. Trust, faith, honesty must mean something or what is the point?
Have faith if she wanted to leave you she would have already. She broke up with the guy for a reason. Am I right?
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Old 01-16-2008, 11:59 PM
 
Location: Naptowne, Alaska
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Your not gonna get any sleep are you! Well here's the big test. Let her go. Deal with it man. You gotta have the trust. If anything happens I'm sure you'll figure it out eventually. But from what I've read...I think your safe. Try to relax. If it's meant to be she'll be back with her things. If she cares about you at all...she'll check in as I'm sure she knows your uncomfortable. It'll be ok.
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