should I go back (marriage, husband, family, calling)
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I left my 2 year marriage because my husband chose to let his useless bro stay in our house rather than me! Can you believe it?! We are in the process of reconciling but I really am having not just 2nd thoughts but thousands! I'm really really and at same time.
So whose side are you on? Who do you think should leave our house? Am I right? Is my idiot husband wrong?
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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Originally Posted by layasera
I left my 2 year marriage because my husband chose to let his useless bro stay in our house rather than me! Can you believe it?! We are in the process of reconciling but I really am having not just 2nd thoughts but thousands! I'm really really and at same time.
So whose side are you on? Who do you think should leave our house? Am I right? Is my idiot husband wrong?
I left my 2 year marriage because my husband chose to let his useless bro stay in our house rather than me! Can you believe it?! We are in the process of reconciling but I really am having not just 2nd thoughts but thousands! I'm really really and at same time.
So whose side are you on? Who do you think should leave our house? Am I right? Is my idiot husband wrong?
What does this mean? He threw you out, and is sharing the bedroom with his brother? He let his brother stay at the house during a period of unemployment, and you said "it's either him, or me", and stomped off? We have no information on which to base an opinion here.
His bro was injured and is in long legal battle of work injury lawsuit with his company. Which his attorney think is a loser case coz he did not file his injury right away. So his company is saying they don't believe he got injured while at work.
And so he is not working and won't be for long so what? I suffer with no privacy the rest of my life in my own house?! I mean WTF.
Yes I told him I will leave because I am very unhappy with our living situation and he said go ahead and you are not welcome back!
And honestly this is not the first time I pack up and leave and EVERYTIME, he does not help me. I pack all my stuff by myself ALWAYS! Then, while I'm packing he does not say anything, And when I got all my stuff in my car and backing out of the driveway guess who was calling my phone?! My idiot husband who kept calling me wanting me to come back. And I told him why he ALWAYS wait til I'm all packed before he talks to me? Isn't he an idiot?!
If you really want to work things out with him, quit leaving. And, personally, I wouldn't want to be with someone who would abandon their family in their time of need.
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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You want him to help you pack when you're running away?
If you called me an idiot I wouldn't help you do crap. Poor dude.
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