When a man is interested in you. (dates, sex, friend)

[Cyn1976]

Sometimes I think that if he wanted to make me his woman he would have asked me already.

The fact that he hasn't asked me yet is clearly showing me that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with me.

He is happy with the "benefits" but is not interested in making me his woman.

Yes, it is true that men respect a strong independent woman and that would equal ME.

However, he is not making his move so I'm getting ready to make my move and "bounce" (LOL)!!

[blondiel]

Originally Posted by Cyn1976

Sometimes I think that if he wanted to make me his woman he would have asked me already.

The fact that he hasn't asked me yet is clearly showing me that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with me.

He is happy with the "benefits" but is not interested in making me his woman.

Yes, it is true that men respect a strong independent woman and that would equal ME.

However, he is not making his move so I'm getting ready to make my move and "bounce" (LOL)!!

Smart lady!

[onihC]

Originally Posted by Cyn1976

Sometimes I think that if he wanted to make me his woman he would have asked me already.

The fact that he hasn't asked me yet is clearly showing me that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship with me.

He is happy with the "benefits" but is not interested in making me his woman.

Yes, it is true that men respect a strong independent woman and that would equal ME.

However, he is not making his move so I'm getting ready to make my move and "bounce" (LOL)!!

How are you showing him you want to make him your man? Passiveness may not convince him.

[RoseLikeAnyOther]

If you have doubts, then he's not crazy about you yet.
I learned the hard way that when a guy truly cares about you he will move the MOON just to look at you for five minutes.

[onihC]

Originally Posted by RoseLikeAnyOther

If you have doubts, then he's not crazy about you yet.
I learned the hard way that when a guy truly cares about you he will move the MOON just to look at you for five minutes.

What do you do to show you truly care about a guy?

If a girl doesn't show interest as well we might feel she just sees us as a friend.

[timberline742]

Originally Posted by Cyn1976

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Yes, it is true that men respect a strong independent woman and that would equal ME.

However, he is not making his move so I'm getting ready to make my move and "bounce" (LOL)!!

Nothing you said early on shows you are a strong independent woman. Quite the opposite.

And its fascinating that you are willing to just give up on this, but you're not willing to actually ask a simple, straightforward question of him.

[RoseLikeAnyOther]

Originally Posted by onihC

What do you do to show you truly care about a guy?

If a girl doesn't show interest as well we might feel she just sees us as a friend.

All sorts of things like cooking for him, cleaning his place, doing things for him

[timberline742]

Wait, women really go over a dude's house and cleans it? I've never heard of such a thing.

[mlj1225]

Originally Posted by RoseLikeAnyOther

All sorts of things like cooking for him, cleaning his place, doing things for him

I've cared about men a lot and never cleaned their place. I would much rather do something else to show I care!

[CSD610]

I would not hang my future on this guy.
If you want to stay in contact fine,
If you want to go out with him again, fine
Just don't hang on to your ideal of a future
with him, keep dating, living your life, etc.
If/when he falls into a permanent place great,
if he doesn't you havenot wasted any time waiting
for him and have not set yourself up for future
disappointment and emotional failure.