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So I've been dating and seeing this girl for about a month now, shes 22 im 24, we met online. We have a ton of things in common like most people who date do... and I know she likes me, and she knows I like her, neither of us have actually "said" it though. 2-3 weeks ago after we had already gone on a couple dates she said she wanted to take things slowly, which I understood because I think shes been burned in the past. Anyways since then, we've gone on more dates, I've met most of her close friends and her sister (they all seem to like me), we've cuddled, kissed, made out, and we've slept over at each others houses once per... she tends to talk about the future too. We see each other 1-3 times a week id say, her work schedule is getting better though as of recently so I've started to see her more.
I feel like I have all of the signs of a relationship or exclusiveness, but I havent brought it up yet because I dont know where she stands with the taking it slow thing. I obviously dont want to push her towards a relationship if she isnt ready. Btw she deleted her online profile, I just dont know for sure if shes seeing anyone else or wants to.
Just let her know that you are not seeing anyone, and have no interest in seeing anyone else. Let her know that is your decision, and you are not pressuring her to make any decisions. At that point she should give you some feedback on how she is feeling. If she doesn't you just have to let that conversation die.
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You have only been together for a month which is really not that long, just take the time to get to know each other and things will progress over time.
Im a very straight forward person so I have no problem asking or brining it up, I just dont want to make her think I'm being pushy by asking, espeically since she wants to take things slow.
I get that it's only been a month and I probably sound crazy, but shes not gonna bring it up because shes old fashioned, so I have to make that move to progress it...
I know everyone says it, but the connection that we've shared in this past month is stronger than any connection I've ever had before, so I THINK I need to capitalize on it.
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