This guy wants sex but I want to actually have a friendship (cheating, partner)

[Kimx29]

Just his friendship he makes me feel safe.

Originally Posted by snugglegirl05

OP:

Exactly what is it that you need from this guy, who may or may not be married?

[Kimx29]

I told him I was inexperienced when it comes to sex he said he would teach me.

[snugglegirl05]

Originally Posted by Kimx29

I told him I was inexperienced when it comes to sex he said he would teach me.

So a guy whom you met on-line, who may or may not be married, offered to teach you about sex.

So are you now going to have sex with him?

Do you plan on meeting him so he can teach you all about sex?

What friend offers to teach someone of the opposite sex all about sex?

You want to be friends with him, yet you told him that you are inexperienced when it comes to sex, and he told you that he would teach you.

Both of you are sending mixed signals if all you want is friendship from this guy.

This is just too much.

And if he is married, his proposition is completely out of line.

[TabulaRasa]

Originally Posted by Kimx29

Why are people so against me meeting him? All the more reason why would he say we would talk if he wants nothing to do with me? You all are only focused on the negative things a bunch of debby downers are on this forum. You all can not predict the future. You all act as people don't change their mind.

Why on earth did you post here, if not to get responses?

Also, since you "know a lot of people who know him," it shouldn't be too hard to ask some of them if, oh, he's married and has kids, since he plead the fifth on all that.

Just his friendship he makes me feel safe.

Pffft. Which part? The part where he tells you he doesn't like you or find you interesting, the part where he wants to teach you how to have sex even though you supposedly vehemently do not want to have sex with him, or something else? Which part, exactly, of your bizarre online interactions with a sexual favors-soliciting complete stranger "makes you feel safe?"

[Kimx29]

How are we sending mixed signals? No I already said I wouldn't sleep with him.

Originally Posted by snugglegirl05

So a guy whom you met on-line, who may or may not be married, offered to teach you about sex.

So are you now going to have sex with him?

Do you plan on meeting him so he can teach you all about sex?

What friend offers to teach someone of the opposite sex all about sex?

You want to be friends with him, yet you told him that you are inexperienced when it comes to sex, and he told you that he would teach you.

Both of you are sending mixed signals if all you want is friendship from this guy.

This is just too much.

And if he is married, his proposition is completely out of line.

[Chillinout123]

Originally Posted by Kimx29

I just want him to please me.

LOL your even dumber then you sounded before. How is he going to please you and for that matter why would anyone want to?? I'm a woman and honestly I would bet the only reason this guy would meet you is to shut your dumb ass up, by putting his privates down your throat!!! Oh by the way I'm sure he'd love it if you choke!!!

[snugglegirl05]

Originally Posted by Kimx29

How are we sending mixed signals? No I already said I wouldn't sleep with him.

You told him that you are inexperienced in the sex dept.

He offered to be your sex partner.

Both of you sent sexy pictures of each-other

He sent you a picture of his genitals

Considering you only want to be his friend, all of the above is sending mixed signals to each-other.

Friends do not do the above.

[artemis agrotera]

Originally Posted by Kimx29

Why are people so against me meeting him? All the more reason why would he say we would talk if he wants nothing to do with me? You all are only focused on the negative things a bunch of debby downers are on this forum. You all can not predict the future. You all act as people don't change their mind.

So.. Go meet him.

[snugglegirl05]

Originally Posted by Kimx29

I told him I was inexperienced when it comes to sex he said he would teach me.

Who would tell anyone, whom they barely know, that they are inexperienced when it comes to sex?

OP:

Going by your OP and your replies...

• are "not getting it" regarding what the citydata.com members have told you?
• are you not "wanting to get it" regarding what the citydata.com members have told you?
• are you playing games with us?
• do you have any disabilities: mental, emotional and so on?

And...

by the way you are acting and reacting, the help and advice you need is much more than anyone on any message board can give you.

[Kimx29]

I'm dumb because I said I want to be pleased by a man..... yeah ok you must be a lesbian or gay.

Originally Posted by Chillinout123

LOL your even dumber then you sounded before. How is he going to please you and for that matter why would anyone want to?? I'm a woman and honestly I would bet the only reason this guy would meet you is to shut your dumb ass up, by putting his privates down your throat!!! Oh by the way I'm sure he'd love it if you choke!!!