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I just can't be bothered with dating, sex, or anything sexual/intimate right now. My head is so focused on other things and dating is at the back of my mind, but i don't want it to be. I enjoy meeting women, dating, sex, being intimate, having fun, teasing, flirting, joking, being an idiot with women, but i have just lost all interest in this at the moment.
I find it fairly easy to meet women and previously i have had an abundance of ladies in my life, casual or otherwise, but i just don't feel like socialising right now, at all, with anyone of any gender. I just have goals that i need to focus on, I need to find some kind of work, but also focus on what I really want in life.
It is a double edged sword though as I don't particularly feel in the mood for dating, but I also feel lonely when I don't have any women in my life. I only really keep very few people around because I don't trust many people, so I don't have any women in my life, even as friends.
I'm in the same boat, I kind of want someone in my life, but I don't feel like putting up with the hassle of dating. Although my reasoning might be a bit different, I am still not really over my last relationship and every time I try to date, my thoughts go back to the previous relationship I had.
Take a break (that's what I am doing) and "experience relationships" vicariously though this forum (which is what I am also doing, lol).
Actually, I am still open to meeting people and making friends with the opposite sex. I am just not going out with the mindset of finding someone to date. I figure if things seem to fall in place and it leads to more, maybe then I will be in the mood for a relationship again. If not, I have more friends and am less "lonely."
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I find it fairly easy to meet women and previously i have had an abundance of ladies in my life, casual or otherwise, but i just don't feel like socialising right now, at all, with anyone of any gender.
I don't know what to think right now.
Modest fellow, aren't you? Try reading something deep, meaningful and inspirational then you can go back to your Don Juan ways. Women dig intellectuals.
What you should be thinking is why you cannot seem to be happy with yourself by yourself without the outside attention/entertainment of another human.
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