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I feel like I am such a low priority to my boyfriend. He is the type that if you say something, you get less attention. I'm guessing most men are like this. On this forum I know the general advice is "tell him how you feel" (not just us) well, I tried that and yes, I got less attention. So I am at a loss. He actually told me he prefers it when I just wait for him to call me. So I really restrain myself from texting and calling. I feel like I have been "too nice" and now am being taken for granted. This is textbook stuff, men like a challenge and all that. What do you do in my position? Not getting enough attention (though he has time for all the face book women- yes I have addressed this to no avail) , I have spoken with him about it with him pulling back rather than correcting it. (My last boyfriend was like this too, tell him something I didn't like and he'd do it more.) Please advise
Are you serious?
No, he is being a total A Hole. If you like being with an A Hole then by all means try to hang on til he cuts you loose.
I feel like I am such a low priority to my boyfriend. He is the type that if you say something, you get less attention. I'm guessing most men are like this. On this forum I know the general advice is "tell him how you feel" (not just us) well, I tried that and yes, I got less attention. So I am at a loss. He actually told me he prefers it when I just wait for him to call me. So I really restrain myself from texting and calling. I feel like I have been "too nice" and now am being taken for granted. This is textbook stuff, men like a challenge and all that. What do you do in my position? Not getting enough attention (though he has time for all the face book women- yes I have addressed this to no avail) , I have spoken with him about it with him pulling back rather than correcting it. (My last boyfriend was like this too, tell him something I didn't like and he'd do it more.) Please advise
I feel like I am such a low priority to my boyfriend. He is the type that if you say something, you get less attention. I'm guessing most men are like this. On this forum I know the general advice is "tell him how you feel" (not just us) well, I tried that and yes, I got less attention. So I am at a loss. He actually told me he prefers it when I just wait for him to call me. So I really restrain myself from texting and calling. I feel like I have been "too nice" and now am being taken for granted. This is textbook stuff, men like a challenge and all that. What do you do in my position? Not getting enough attention (though he has time for all the face book women- yes I have addressed this to no avail) , I have spoken with him about it with him pulling back rather than correcting it. (My last boyfriend was like this too, tell him something I didn't like and he'd do it more.) Please advise
Hmmm... Sounds like one inclined to cheat. If that's the case, no wonder he's not giving you much attention.
That donkey's behind is spread too thin!
Look, OP, continue the therapy but hold off on having any type of relationship for a while.
When you've worked on you, and have made satisfactory progress, then try your new "improved through intensive therapy" picker out!
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I feel like I am such a low priority to my boyfriend. He is the type that if you say something, you get less attention. I'm guessing most men are like this. On this forum I know the general advice is "tell him how you feel" (not just us) well, I tried that and yes, I got less attention. So I am at a loss. He actually told me he prefers it when I just wait for him to call me. So I really restrain myself from texting and calling. I feel like I have been "too nice" and now am being taken for granted. This is textbook stuff, men like a challenge and all that. What do you do in my position? Not getting enough attention (though he has time for all the face book women- yes I have addressed this to no avail) , I have spoken with him about it with him pulling back rather than correcting it. (My last boyfriend was like this too, tell him something I didn't like and he'd do it more.) Please advise 
