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Old 06-14-2015, 09:50 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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... all I ask in return is for him to tread lightly with churches that preach eternal damnation for unbelievers; not for the sake of my feelings, but because it's not going to go over well for someone to be telling our kids that their mom is going to hell.
... Even though, if he's a Christian, that's what he's supposed to believe?
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:51 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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... Even though, if he's a Christian, that's what he's supposed to believe?
From what I can tell, there are churches that don't preach that. There are churches that don't believe that.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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From what I can tell, there are churches that don't preach that. There are churches that don't believe that.
Then they must not be Christian churches.

The Christian teaching is that there is only ONE WAY to salvation, and that is through believing in Jesus as the son of God and accepting him as your savior. So if Dad preaches about Jesus but mom doesn't believe in Him, there is a problem.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:54 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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Less conservative denominations don't focus much on that. Even more conservative ones don't really teach it to young children, either.
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... Even though, if he's a Christian, that's what he's supposed to believe?
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Less conservative denominations don't focus much on that. Even more conservative ones don't really teach it to young children, either.
Doesn't mean they don't believe it. Jesus said it himself. Not talking about it doesn't make it go away.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:56 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Then they must not be Christian churches.

The Christian teaching is that there is only ONE WAY to salvation, and that is through believing in Jesus as the son of God and accepting him as your savior. So if Dad preaches about Jesus but mom doesn't believe in Him, there is a problem.
I don't know - I've known Christians that didn't seem to believe that everyone was going to hell. I've also known Christians that do believe that. I've been to church with people before and not all of them were the brimstone and hellfire kind of churches.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:58 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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I don't know - I've known Christians that didn't seem to believe that everyone was going to hell. I've also known Christians that do believe that. I've been to church with people before and not all of them were the brimstone and hellfire kind of churches.
Here's the thing ... I am a moderate Methodist, not a snake handler or "fire and brimstone" person.

People don't want to admit to themselves that, as Jesus said in the Bible, the path is narrow.

If you don't believe he is the son if God, there is only one other option for you.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:58 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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It's only a problem if you make it one. My kids have grown up in a very ethnically-diverse neighborhood, so it's not some big shock to them that different people believe different things... even within the same religion.
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Then they must not be Christian churches.

The Christian teaching is that there is only ONE WAY to salvation, and that is through believing in Jesus as the son of God and accepting him as your savior. So if Dad preaches about Jesus but mom doesn't believe in Him, there is a problem.
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Old 06-14-2015, 09:59 AM
 
Location: california
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How can you agree to something you do not believe in?
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Old 06-14-2015, 10:00 AM
 
Location: Katonah, NY
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Here's the thing ... I am a moderate Methodist, not a snake handler or "fire and brimstone" person.

People don't want to admit to themselves that, as Jesus said in the Bible, the path is narrow.

If you don't believe he is the son if God, there is only one other option for you.
So, to you, you can't be a "real" Christian unless you believe that anyone who isn't a "real" Christian is going to hell?
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