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Old 06-20-2015, 06:13 PM
 
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I mentioned incense guy in a previous thread but can't find it. Anyway last Christmas before last (2013)church was selling incense and this guy offered to buy me incense but I declined. He started kind of trying to talk to me but I avoided him. He backed off and would say hi but that's it. Last week I saw him in the store and he was talking to me and then asked me out. I told him I have a boyfriend and he told me if he loved me we'd be engaged. I told him without going into detail that now isn't the time for that, and he said he'd make a great husband! Maybe but guy is around 58 or so (I googled him), not sure if he drives a car (I normally see him riding a bike, once saw him driving a lawnmower, another time I saw him driving what appeared to be a mechanical horse), he's ugly and apparently is a janitor (and has been for years). Even if I didn't have a boyfriend why would I date him?

What would you do? I'm going to avoid him at church now.

 
Old 06-20-2015, 06:21 PM
 
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Why is this a question? You aren't interested but he doesn't seem to be going anything illegal and backs off when you say you aren't interested.

Oh...and some janitors make very good money depending on the job so quit being such a snob.
 
Old 06-20-2015, 06:37 PM
 
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I mentioned incense guy in a previous thread but can't find it. Anyway last Christmas before last (2013)church was selling incense and this guy offered to buy me incense but I declined. He started kind of trying to talk to me but I avoided him. He backed off and would say hi but that's it. Last week I saw him in the store and he was talking to me and then asked me out. I told him I have a boyfriend and he told me if he loved me we'd be engaged. I told him without going into detail that now isn't the time for that, and he said he'd make a great husband! Maybe but guy is around 58 or so (I googled him), not sure if he drives a car (I normally see him riding a bike, once saw him driving a lawnmower, another time I saw him driving what appeared to be a mechanical horse), he's ugly and apparently is a janitor (and has been for years). Even if I didn't have a boyfriend why would I date him?

What would you do? I'm going to avoid him at church now.

Just avoid him. He's probably harmless.
 
Old 06-20-2015, 06:56 PM
 
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I mentioned incense guy in a previous thread but can't find it. Anyway last Christmas before last (2013)church was selling incense and this guy offered to buy me incense but I declined. He started kind of trying to talk to me but I avoided him. He backed off and would say hi but that's it. Last week I saw him in the store and he was talking to me and then asked me out. I told him I have a boyfriend and he told me if he loved me we'd be engaged. I told him without going into detail that now isn't the time for that, and he said he'd make a great husband! Maybe but guy is around 58 or so (I googled him), not sure if he drives a car (I normally see him riding a bike, once saw him driving a lawnmower, another time I saw him driving what appeared to be a mechanical horse), he's ugly and apparently is a janitor (and has been for years). Even if I didn't have a boyfriend why would I date him?

What would you do? I'm going to avoid him at church now.
lol.
 
Old 06-20-2015, 07:07 PM
 
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I would tell him unequivocally that I am uninterested in having a relationship with him, but I must admit that I'm fascinated by why you felt it necessary to share this story.
 
Old 06-20-2015, 07:17 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Oh, now you're being mean, IDDY
 
Old 06-20-2015, 07:30 PM
 
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I'm avoiding him but I feel bad doing so. He's probably harmless but it freaked me out. If he approaches me again I'm going to wear a ring. My boyfriend would get me a ring but feel foolish until we get married (though true story, we almost eloped to the county courthouse).
 
Old 06-20-2015, 07:31 PM
 
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lol.
That's the funny thing, why doesn't he have a car? He drives all kinds of vehicles. I guess that doesn't matter and it doesn't apply to me.

I suppose I'm overreacting.
 
Old 06-20-2015, 07:33 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I mentioned incense guy in a previous thread but can't find it. Anyway last Christmas before last (2013)church was selling incense and this guy offered to buy me incense but I declined. He started kind of trying to talk to me but I avoided him. He backed off and would say hi but that's it. Last week I saw him in the store and he was talking to me and then asked me out. I told him I have a boyfriend and he told me if he loved me we'd be engaged. I told him without going into detail that now isn't the time for that, and he said he'd make a great husband! Maybe but guy is around 58 or so (I googled him), not sure if he drives a car (I normally see him riding a bike, once saw him driving a lawnmower, another time I saw him driving what appeared to be a mechanical horse), he's ugly and apparently is a janitor (and has been for years). Even if I didn't have a boyfriend why would I date him?

What would you do? I'm going to avoid him at church now.
This is unnecessarily nasty.

Last week, I got hit on by a fat girl. I politely declined and thought nothing more of it. Maybe I should have made a thread on C-D about how repulsive she is instead?
 
Old 06-20-2015, 07:35 PM
 
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You seem to freak out easily.....
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