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I've just read a few pieces of this thread, enough to find that the OP likes, or rather much prefers well built and slim men, yet she herself is not well built and slim. That doesn't make her a hypocrite.
Absolutely true. Again, there is nothing wrong with a larger women preferring & being more attracted to slender guys. It's not hypocritical. If a big woman finds guys with a certain body type more attractive, more power to her! I think it's great, and I wish more big women made their feelings known like this.
I've just read a few pieces of this thread, enough to find that the OP likes, or rather much prefers well built and slim men, yet she herself is not well built and slim. That doesn't make her a hypocrite..
I agree. Her preferences do not make her a hypocrite
If she is seriously overweight her preferences are not very realistic. Most men I know or talked to who are in shape, exercise and eat right prefer a woman who is not overweight. There are some who like overweight women but in that case they might have almost a fetishistic preference which the OP would not enjoy. As a consequence, she is single and not happy, as expected.
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Claiming that men who aren't attracted to her are "shallow" while apparently believing that her preferences are just what they are, does make her a hypocrite.
Agree, makes her hypocritical, unrealistic and bitter.
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Having said all that, I see men of all shapes and sizes with women of all shapes and sizes, so maybe being "large" isn't the only obstacle the OP faces. That's not meant as a shot at you, OP. If you don't intend to lose weight or you can't, finding out that changing something you may be willing or able to change will improve your prospects could be good news.
Not all people can lose significant amount of weight. However, everyone can lead healthier life style, exercise, be active and fit and eat right. So OP prospects will improve if she becomes more physically active, eats healthier and has a more positive outlook on life.
Not all people can lose significant amount of weight. However, everyone can lead healthier life style, exercise, be active and fit and eat right. So OP prospects will improve if she becomes more physically active, eats healthier and has a more positive outlook on life.
Sorry did I miss a post where she said she doesn't already do those things? There are plenty of people who eat right and stay active but are still overweight, and that has to do with genetic so it's a bit presumptuous to assume she eats bad and is lazy. For me personally, it is a constant struggle to stay within a normal weight range, if all I did was eat right and stayed active I'd be 20 pounds heavier than I am now. I have to eat very little, and exercise a crazy amount just to maintain a decent weight (and by decent I mean the higher end of the the normal BMI weight range for my height).
BTW same goes for my mother, her weight is a constant struggle she's normal/thin but she barely eats, to this day workouts everyday and she is 68 years old.
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