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i just started seeing this wonderful guy a week ago we chatted online for alittle while before we actually met in person.I didnt have sex with him the first night but we both wanted to we were attracted right away. He is a perfect gentlemen opens the car door for me treats me with respect he is fun to be around we laughi just really like him a lot. So my question here is was it wrong to sleep with him on the second date, oh he is 53 i am 45 we are 2 consenting adults. whats your opinion on this?
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Why would this be wrong? It's pretty much the norm in my arena. (Though I have one lady I've gone out with 3 times now, a 4th planned, and we haven't done more than kiss! (It's really odd to me and my friends can't figure it out either))
Why would this be wrong? It's pretty much the norm in my arena. (Though I have one lady I've gone out with 3 times now, a 4th planned, and we haven't done more than kiss! (It's really odd to me and my friends can't figure it out either))
Sorry, but I think that sounds great and not odd at all.
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Sorry, but I think that sounds great and not odd at all.
It's very odd. Not encountered it in over 10 years, and that only went so slow because she had an infant at home and always stressed being away from her daughter.
It's very odd. Not encountered it in over 10 years, and that only went so slow because she had an infant at home and always stressed being away from her daughter.
And it isn't great. It stinks.
Give it a few more dates and see what happens. Not everybody wants to jump into something new head over heels. I had a guy drive 2 hours to see me and still waited 6 dates (I would have waited longer but felt guilty because of the long distance).
He was okay with it because he thought I was worth it. And I think I was
It's very odd. Not encountered it in over 10 years, and that only went so slow because she had an infant at home and always stressed being away from her daughter.
And it isn't great. It stinks.
Are you saying in the past 10 years you have had sex with every woman you've dated by the 3rd date at the latest? Impressive.
i just started seeing this wonderful guy a week ago we chatted online for alittle while before we actually met in person.I didnt have sex with him the first night but we both wanted to we were attracted right away. He is a perfect gentlemen opens the car door for me treats me with respect he is fun to be around we laughi just really like him a lot. So my question here is was it wrong to sleep with him on the second date, oh he is 53 i am 45 we are 2 consenting adults. whats your opinion on this?
If you both want to, and are responsible adults, why seek validation here? You're not hurting anyone else by either doing it or not doing it. LOL Methinks you're feeling trapped by some social constructs you were raised with, which is to be expected to some degree.
Sometimes there's just a spark. Fighting it builds up tension, which is fun & sexy in and of itself in some ways... but from the sounds of your post I think you would rather just do the deed than have the tension.
From a guy's perspective, I'll say this: blue balls suck. If you don't want to hurt this guy, don't give him blue balls.
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