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You sound a little chubby, so you might want to rethink if you are really as good looking as you think. I'm a bit under 6'1" and still under 200 lbs. Frank Gore, a pro football player, is about your size (H/W), but he gets to train 2X a day. Let's assume that isn't the case. Let's assume that you make great money, are attractive, and have mastered personal hygiene... It's gonna be your personality.
Nah, I'm pretty cocky and arrogant myself and I don't any problems with dating.
Maybe you don't because you're good looking and women like you. We overlook a little arrogance here and there for a guy who is otherwise enjoyable company.
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I haven't noticed any change at all personally and i'm now 26 years old. I've gone from pretty good looking to very good looking as I've gotten older, I've gotten more and more fit, more and more stylish, more and more mature and understanding/educated as a person. Financially, my income has doubled in the last 3 years all the way up to 170K living in a pretty cheap area. I see my high school friends here and there and nobody is the overall package that i am yet I'm the only one who is perma - single. I still find dating to be absolutely impossible beyond impossible. Finding a woman who is attracted to me is like trying to find bigfoot...and I always sense a ton of resistance whenever I try to make something happen.
At what point does it actually get easier?
When you get over yourself and start to grow up. Being simultaneously self-absorbed and so insecure that you need to flaunt your outward ornamentations is not attractive except to people who want to use you and take advantage of you.
If it is any consolation, 26 is still pretty young. Many men don't pull their heads out until they get into their thirties. And then there are others who never get their heads pulled out at all.
You asking the question could be the first step towards becoming a mature, reasonably unselfish adult, if you are open to it.
You're extremely entitled. You feel like, because of what you do and how you (supposedly) look, you DESERVE to have a woman who (you believe) is EQUAL to you in status.
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