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And tell her if she puts her hands on you again, the police will be called.
He needs to call the police NOW and have her arrested. To heck with her "papers" she is guilty of spousal abuse, and he need to ends this NOW with documentation, so he can stand up for himself in court. You can't let your feelings get in the way of an abuser.
Really, dude... how was she able to talk you into marrying for papers? No wonder your mom is po'd. You two collectively have no common sense in handling this. Leave and divorce.
How do people manage to get themselves into these kinds of messes? OMG.
[quote=Dagobert;41115437]it feels borderline impossible to call it off right now.. we HAVE to live together for her papers now..
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You got married so she could get her papers and yet getting those papers doesn't seem that important to her now that she is risking you bailing? YOU have the power in this situation, if you want it. You can end the marriage or you might be able to leverage counseling or whatever if you want to try to save the marriage. I say try because she obviously has to do her part - which means anger counseling at a minimum. It's up to you, but don't act like you're powerless!
Why were you arrested? Was it just because you pushed her down? Have you hit her before?
He answered this in the intro, he accidently pushed her, she called the cops. He needs to do the same, but he won't.
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