how to reply to this apology text? (boyfriend, girlfriend, girl)
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The other night I met up with this girl I like, and I brought my brother along, and she ended up flirting with him the whole time and I got upset. Now she sent me a text this morning saying she was sorry about the other night, and that I seemed really mad at her.
What should I write back? any advice? She sent it hours ago and i havent replied yet (feel bad)
I think the reply depends on what you are looking for from her at this point. Are you still interested in her? Or did her bad behavior ruin that? It sounds like she just wants you to let her off the hook.
I would accept her apology and then move on. Doesn't really seem like the kind of person I'd want to keep pursuing, but that's no reason to leave her feeling crappy either.
I think the reply depends on what you are looking for from her at this point. Are you still interested in her? Or did her bad behavior ruin that? It sounds like she just wants you to let her off the hook.
BTW why on earth did you bring your brother?
Yeah she has a boyfriend now anyways (we were just hanging out as friends that night), so i'm not still trying to pursue her. But I guess I'm wondering how exactly to reply to her, should i say something like "it's ok, i shouldnt have gotten mad" idk... idk what to write
Yeah she has a boyfriend now anyways (we were just hanging out as friends that night), so i'm not still trying to pursue her. But I guess I'm wondering how exactly to reply to her, should i say something like "it's ok, i shouldnt have gotten mad" idk... idk what to write
Yeah she has a boyfriend now anyways (we were just hanging out as friends that night), so i'm not still trying to pursue her. But I guess I'm wondering how exactly to reply to her, should i say something like "it's ok, i shouldnt have gotten mad" idk... idk what to write
I'm confused.
If she had a boyfriend then, why would you care about her flirting with your brother? She's not your girl so it's strange that she would acknowledge that you were upset without just cutting you off.
If she has a boyfriend now, but didn't the other night when you went out... I don't get it...
I don't get it either if she has someone/isn't your girlfriend.
I would just say, "no worries" in a reply so she knows the apology is accepted and move on. You don't need to be sorry for getting upset though (having an emotional reaction to something isn't something you need to apologize for, unless you acted on that reaction in an unacceptable way).
Maybe she just likes making you jealous cause she enjoys the attention, and she needs to bring it further to the forefront by texting you about it, as if her witnessing you being jealous weren't enough.
Stop giving her the attention, she's taken. "No worries" is a perfect, indifferent response.
Last edited by Llewelyn; 09-21-2015 at 02:16 PM..
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